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Hello 👋 I am struggling everyday with thoughts that my life is useless and that I am a burden on everyone… especially my grown up daughter and my elderly mum. I am a recent breast cancer patient and I am a late diagnosed autistic female.( ASD Level 1).
TW ED Hey, sorry wasn't sure where to put this. I'm in an inpatient facility atm. My treating team are aware I have an eating disorder but the hospital itself isn't a locked one (not even locks on bedroom doors) and as such it
When is it reasonable to quit. When is it ok to just give up. How much is enough. I am so tired and nothing I do is ever enough no matter how hard I try I can’t keep up and now I think I have ruined everything I don’t know that it is fixable either. I kee
I’m scared. I am crying everyday for hours until I pass out or fall asleep. I am still managing to eat at least two meals a day but I am relapsing into disordered eating behaviour. I’m a chronic self harmer, if I don’t do it I am not real. I was clean for
Hello on June I lost my speech and functioning so have been forced to live with my mum who I love because she's the only one who I feel loves me right now but her husband doesn't want me here and I just feel like a burden and unwelcome. All my family have
I have contacted every possible person, organisation, anyone for a moment of support. I have got nothing but a fortnightly email back and forth for an hour with a psychologist who doesn't even know me. Help feels like it's not coming and I've been f
Another day alone and I'm overwhelmed with despair. I have no family or friends, no meaningful relationships. I can't remember the last time someone hugged me. Another Christmas on my own, this will be the 35th. I feel empty and depleted of li
Just life can get FkdMy thoughts are too dark to deal with and I can't talk to anyone coz I lost my voice. And I feel hopeless and stuck and so fkn angry at life and myself. I just wanted to get through today....and now idc
Hey there, I'm nearly 6 months pregnant and I just found out my partner of 2 years has attempted to take his life twice in the last fortnight.I'm worried 😟. He told me this two days ago and tonight he's at a friend's. I don't know how I should r
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