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Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

I get so tired of being strong and being positive and thinking of a new approach. I feel pull out positivity like a rabbit from a hat but that it can become false. I am now hypersentsitive and ambivalent about whether I should continue to post or withdraw.

I have had low self-talk and concentration poor.

My son has been the most loyal of all my family to me ..it worries me because he is vulnerable too.

Nobody else cares and I put a lot of effort into family events for decades.

I started swearing and calliing myself piece of dirt and other things like I am becoming a teenager.d .. but i dont want to have to be teenage boy all the time ..

I would like to have been useful

I have managed to get some help and am grateful, for what has worked.

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In response to: Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

I'm definitely there @PeppiPatty. I'll either be quiet and awkward or excited and talkative.

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Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Dear @Maritza
My concentration is up the creek too. I want to check out stuff Appleblossom put on and should be able to tomorrow
That addiction talk ...... I watch it all the time but you can take it in in bits a little at a time.

There's this awesome dude called um ..... ( someone took his book from me ! ) Stanton somebody who writes along the lines that addiction issues stopping comes from within

Re my mum
I've got a Paychotherapist now
How did you open communication with your mum ?

In response to: Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Its good we are all unique ... lots of different traits and styles.

I've never been to WA ... I'd love to visit ... just need to pack my bags and get an address. We wont make mean comments will we ... just innocuous ones that show we are mature ladies of "experience"

I think I am getting the emoticon thing ... tell me if I am inappropriate ... I was going to ask a question in a post when was it ok to wink ... did I get it ... did I get it ... ??

In response to: Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Sounds good to me too 🙂 bring on the sisterhood!!

Congrats Appleblossom on getting your poems published!!

Laughter is food for the soul 😉 or something like that!

Lj

In response to: Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Thank @Former-Member

Laughters good so long as it flows naturally

the soul and the thymus gland gets activated ... biochemical fountains I think they call them

In response to: Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

And then there were four sisters...

@Appleblossom I just 'wing it' with the emoticons and hope for the best. Sometimes I just want to smile like I would in real life if we were having this conversation. 🙂

In response to: Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

@Former-Member
Laughter is food for the soul and ..... Winking !!

Lol lol

In response to: Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

It takes time to get to know and to trust .. and get to know other people.

Yes its lovely to feel closeness ... I am very curious about people and the whole MI @Mazarita ... I also figured that I felt encouraged when I saw that I had been "liked" when I gave support and that would work in the same way for others.

We are also roughly the same age and probably had similar experiences when young ... same era etc.

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Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Can Arlo join ??

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Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Arlo can join can't he ? He's a bit older than us him and his Dad influenced Bob Dylan when Dylan started out
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