Re: Learning about Relationship Boundaries

Hi Anne, i hope you don't mind me calling you Anne

i often use a online bookstore called http://www.booktopia.com.au they have great prices and a lot of books, their prices are very reasonable.

I don't know if i have the strength to talk about my past, so much has happened to me in the past 14 years, it has gone round and round in my head for so long, i often struggle to tell fact from fiction now, everything seems so lost to me.

Every day i feel like a person who has been in soltry confinement for 14 years and has just been released and shoved out into the world, i often feel so lost and confused, everything around me has changed so much, society has changed so much. i struggle to handle how things can change in the short 14 years, i ver yrarly recognise what society and the world have become.

It wasnt even Amazon, so I am strictly still an amazon virgin,

I am looking up cell physiology online as it helps me understand my brother's treatment.

dear @Jacques

Delighted your calling me Anne.

I think the best thing to do is always stay in the present when writing about the past 14 years. It takes a wbile to do it. I went to see a Psychotherapist for that memory i have.

yeah, Just check out Booko. They give you the cheapest place in the world to get the book. Im little obssessed with Darian Lieder and Stephanie Dowrick.

Darien Lieder wrote this book called, Why do Women Write More Letters Than They Post. So many people write its not a wellwritten book, i personally love it !

It may answer some questions you have....

Dear Anne

I will se what i can write next week, over the weekend i will try to get it right in my head, will see what i can do.

Jacques

hi @Jacques

Ille write shortly of the feelings I have....thedoes.y may or might not be right, I dunno.

It feels like what you have introdUced on the forums is one dreamboat of a man ! You focus on others dillemas.....everyone seems to Love reading your messages to Karen... .I do! Your kind, thoughtful and ......really consider others if I knew that you self harmed....well......

but like how long it took to tell us, things come out in spits and spurts. Once you start....put it away for couple of days. Acknowledging your self harm may mean that you need to be kind to youfself .....

Does this feel right to you ?

what happened to Karen? does anyone know. she hasnt posted for a while. i hope she is alright. maybe she is in the middle of moving. hope so.

Hi @hopeandsupport,

Yes Karen is still around, she is posting on http://saneforums.org/t5/Something-s-not-right/Despair-potential-trigger-abuse/m-p/30318#M3621 i am sure she will be thrilled to talk to you @hopeandsupport.

Jacques

I dont think @hiddenite 's settlement is til end of the month.

Hey you guys its great that you can all catch up and have a bit of chit chat but this thread was actually started for ME to get some support about serious issues.

But love to be in the loop anyway.

I am in the middle of a neck event .. it has been going a couple weeks .. I hope I can drive son to airport tomorrow.

Sorry @Appleblossom, will find another thread

Hey all,

Yes, threads can sometimes go off track. So feel free to start another thread. The discussion topic, 'Enjoying Times with Others' can be good place to start a new discussion thread if you just want to hang out.

Don't forget the Friday Feast is on tonight at as well.