TheVorticonSenior Contributor
Angry and alone
Hi. I know I should write some sort of intro but just don't really know what there is to say.
I'm feeling angry and alone and like there's no one who cares.
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Angry and alone
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
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I just want to be myself again. This giant blob of a person is no good to anyone, least of all myself.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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@TheVorticon. I hear you. It's so hard when we feel this way. It just makes everything else wrong in our life - so much bigger.
Now the question is - what can you do to stop focusing on the negative tonight?
Now the question is - what can you do to stop focusing on the negative tonight?
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
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I don't think its possible to not focus on it. I just can't/don't do anything
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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That's okay tonight @TheVorticon. There are days like that where we can't or don't want to do anything. I've felt that way this past week.
I'm here for you in anyway I can be.
Feel free to write how you're feeling & I'll be here to listen.
I'm here for you in anyway I can be.
Feel free to write how you're feeling & I'll be here to listen.
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
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This is my stupid life now where I just waste the whole thing. I'm sick of feeling like everything is impossible and too hard. Every day seems to be just getting through the necessary and I can't even be bothered with things that I want to get done. If it was just today then maybe it would be ok but it's all the time other than brief moments.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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I understand @TheVorticon. Sometimes the only things we can grab hold of - are those brief moments.
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
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I don't accept this as a forever reality. It's not a life that's good enough for anyone.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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@TheVorticon - that's why I focus on those special moments when I can. The more I focus on them - the more I notice those special moments - & then the more special moments I have.
It's retraining the brain - 1 moment at a time.
Our brains are so used to the negative - that a positive moment is unique.
But I do believe the more we notice them - the better we are.
But like anything worthwhile it takes time and practice. And support from the right people. Even mums and dads.
It's retraining the brain - 1 moment at a time.
Our brains are so used to the negative - that a positive moment is unique.
But I do believe the more we notice them - the better we are.
But like anything worthwhile it takes time and practice. And support from the right people. Even mums and dads.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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@TheVorticon. Not sure if you are ready for a joke - or even if you may find this funny. So I put it here in good faith & if you don't like it - please just ignore.
'Adult life may be full of pain and suffering, but at least we don't have to do PE anymore'.
There is always a positive to be taken from every negative. That's my utopian view anyway.
'Adult life may be full of pain and suffering, but at least we don't have to do PE anymore'.
There is always a positive to be taken from every negative. That's my utopian view anyway.
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TheVorticonSenior Contributor
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I guess but it doesn't seem sustainable. I need to sort myself out, parents back interstate and I have to somehow use up the food they bought while here before it goes bad (unsure if already going bad since feeling bit nauseous but if it is at least I won't be going to work tomorrow).
