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Hi there,Recently I got so distressed and emotional after returning from trip to China. My father passed away during COVID in 2020 and my mum passed away in 2015. They left two properties without a will. At the end of 2023, I went back to China for t
Hi everyone, I have been struggling a bit with my symptoms of BDP. I had the diagnosis about 2 years ago and have been on medication for it which has helped a lot. I have been in a relationship with my partner for 4 years now who has really been my r
Hi AllThis is my very first post. What a great resource!I have complex MH issues. I have borderline personality issues, trauma, anxiety and depression. My latest relationship of 4 1/2 years ended in 2022. I tried to stay friends with my ex but I have
When I’m feeling that things aren’t ok… I often blame my relationship and what I’m not getting from it. But then I think, is it me and my BPD that is causing the issue. How do I seperate the two?
Hi I'm just wondering if it should end things now? But I'm also feeling stuck about my living arrangement. My situation: have been dating this guy for two months now but due my shared flating situation, the owner of the house needs me out
I’m new to this but just wanted to reach out to someone. I broke up with my partner recently. I feel like I have sabotaged and pushed him away for years.My thinking is negative, my body hurts and I feel abandoned. Can’t stop crying today. It’s been a coup
Hi! I’m new, and I don’t really do this kind of thing often but I’ve just been struggling so much with these intense internal feelings. It’s more annoying than it is uncomfortable, which somehow makes me feel even worse. I guess im just venting, but any a
Hi everyone I’m a newly diagnosed person with BPD. I do not meet all of the criteria for BPD and I have been told I have it mildly but it is still effecting me immensely. I am extremely sensitive depressed and anxious about this diagnosis and I am set to
I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, but here I go. About 2 and a half years back I had a breakup from a partner of 9 years, It hit me really hard. The thoughts that were always there before, the ones of not being worthy, or too damaged t
My partner and I have been together for 18 years. It's been mostly a domestic violence relationship the entire time. I've always just tried to please him but no matter what I'm never good enough, never nurturing enough, never feeling enough, never sexual
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