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Was in a long term relationship with a nassist 4 years ago, have decided to start dating again and been together with my new partner for 4 months but I'm having alot of trouble trusting him and I have very low self-esteem which is braking us up
Hi I’m a 19 year old who has been suffering with ADHD, depression, anxiety and I haven’t been diagnosed but I really believe I have autism... I have so many traits of autism. anyway; I have been depressed since I was 8 years old. That’s when my self
I just went through something traumatic and I've been going through various support services and well.. ended up here. Hoping someone can give a little insight I've missed. So I was in a (relatively) stable relationship and this person has Bord
I am in a relationship that is often difficult to navigate through.We live apart but I recently got upset with my boyfriend because he got up in the middle of the night and left my house without saying anything. It made me feel abandoned. We had a nice ni
Hi I was involved in an online *thing* for nearly two years, only to find out that the person didn't like me back the entire time. I wasted nearly two years waiting for something to happen, but nothing did. It ended up that I liked/possibly loved/hi
Am I supposed to forgive and forget what happened because he's been trying and behaving better? I just can't move forward. Bad memories always come back to me and I can't forgive him and forget about it. He was mean to me.He gambles.He has debt.
I've known my husband for 34 years, and its taken me all that time to put together the pieces of what is going on with his mental ill-health. In the early years, I just thought ours was 'how relationships are', ups and downs etc. But only now do I realise
Most of my mental health issues are around fear and trust so it's hard to separate physical from emotional risk right now. The close people in my life have significantly different positions than me when it comes to covid safety. I'm definitely the "pro-sa
Hello all. I've been with my husband for 5 years and married for 2 months. We've always had a great relationship, he is so sweet and caring and loves me very much. Some people have called us the perfect couple. We've been inseparable since we met, we spen
Hi, I will tag @BPDSurvivor as they know the history of the last post I made. I have been with my girlfriend for now nearing 3 months. I think I sound like a broken record at this point feeling unsure and sometimes mildly unhappy with he
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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