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Hey I'm new here, I think my therapist isn't very good? Everytime I leave, i feel worse. I have CPTSD and ADHD, ive been seeing her for 2+ years now, she's done the schematic maladaptation questionnaire and I've been a victim of DV all my life.
Hi again.I am struggling so much with my bpd ATM that I am literally looking for ways to push my partner away. It's killing me. I don't know what to do to make it stop. Even when I am consciously trying I keep picking arguments and being a bitch to put it
Hey everyone, Haven’t posted in a while. Wanted to get some input on some goings on in my life. I’ve always been super close with my Mum. I’ve had some medical problems since I was young and she’s always been the one to look after me, and take m
My husband and I have been together for 12 years since we were in uni and married 2ish. Relationship wasnt perfect but we had a lot of love and communication and we tried to work through our issues (at least I thought so). 4 weeks ago we had an argum
I suffer with CPTSD and Reactive Attachment Disorder and it's kneecapping my relationship. My boyfriend is incredibly understanding, supportive and reassuring, but I just can't fully let myself out of my shell or allow myself to be not withdrawn in regard
I’ve had anxiety all my life but it’s gotten worse over the years because of big changes and affects my everyday life, but the part that affects me the most is not being able to see my boyfriend: I’ve known him since i was a baby and then didn’t talk all
Hi I was wondering if there are people out there with BPD who have some ideas on how to cope with time away from your partner. Background is my mental health is not very good right now and so my partner and I have decided that instead of basically li
Hi I am 24yr female Sam,I am in a relationship since past one year....and living in with my partner.. however it's has become a hassle for me to explain every single time how I feel about certain things he does. 1. He doesn't seem affecti
Hello again, I am posting this in the hopes that someone, that either has BPD themselves or maybe someone who is married to or dating a person who has BPD can help me to understand what's going on with my current relationship... Ok so on the 2nd
I’m 33 and living with BPD. Romantic relationships are the most triggering thing for me and I’ve been avoiding them as much as possible which has been fine for the last year or so but recently I’ve just found myself feeling incredibly lonely. I see m
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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