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Hi, I'm new here and I have Borderline personality disorder. I've often found I really struggle to maintain relationships of any sort. I try so very hard and yet everyone always leaves. I just feel like I don't fit in anywhere or connect with anyone my ag
Hi everyone,I’m reaching out because I’m feeling overwhelmed and don’t know where else to turn. My partner is pregnant, and while I want to feel excited and hopeful, it’s been one of the hardest periods of my life.We started living together without a soli
How do parents of special needs kidults learn to let go. i have been micromanaging for so long i dont know how to stop.
Hey there, Im in a relationship & he is amazing & I love him so much. Unfortunately he is currently serving some time in prison as he had his own mental breakdown when his Dad died & made some poor choices. It’s been 7 months, I
Hi everyone,I have a difficult member of my family who causes a lot of arguments and tension between the whole family. They often message me, complaining about myself or other family members. We recently had an issue booking a cruise and since then, my fa
At some level, we are trained to place attachments and relationships on a pedestal, and anything that happens to shake it might make us feel like the end of our world. The truth is that we cannot or should not take the blame for things that we didn’t do w
Hi. Im a single mum who recently had my adult son move home. He has adhd, bpd and most recently schizoeffective disorder. I am struggling with trust. I often ask myself - is he manipulating me? Is he lying to me? Is he taking drugs behind my back? How do
I have been with my partner for nearly 23 years. Cant see myself with anyone else but also don't know why I stay. Or if I am the problem and not him like he makes me feel.So he has always been jealous. Hates that i had male friends and especially on socia
Hi, this is my first time posting on here so I'm a little shy.Basically, I am disabled and bed bound. I need 27/7 care. I am having a difficult time right now with my family member. This has been an issue for years (around when I became unwell) but has be
Dear All, Welcome to this thread: Support for Single Men. This thread has come about after members identified limited opportunities for single men to gain support around relationships. Some of the brainstormed questions include: - What we feel like which
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
SANE acknowledges the Traditional Owners of Country throughout Australia and recognises the continuing connection to lands, waters and communities. We pay our respect to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures; and to Elders past and present.
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