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Hello all, I heavily suspect my wife has undiagnosed BPD. I don’t say this lightly. It’s a yearly event of the relationship being at a juncture with zero similarities with recall of events.My wife increasingly became controlling with my ac
Trigger warning: abuse, mental health, self-harm I'm new to this forum and have trouble talking about what's going on. I'm feeling completely helpless and defeated and don't know where to turn so I guess I'm giving this a shot. My ol
Hi all. First post.. I am really struggling with my MH today and I need to talk to someone. I have been in the most amazing relationship for the last 4 months, long distance but we have been able to spend a couple of amazing holidays together and he's pla
The only good thing about RSD is that the more I listen and read the more I realise I'm not the only one that feels like my soul is being sucked out everytime I'm rejected. Far out I thought I was the emotional disaster, turns out I'm not. One week till I
Hello. So a couple of days ago, I was caught emotionally cheating on my wife. I was messaging a girl and being sexual and flirtatious with her via messages. This isn't the first time either. My wife went through my phone while I was sleeping an
Background. I live with 24/7 supports. Is it OK for my support to cry on shift?I understand we all have feelings and personal lives, but is letting it spill out and effect you work and your client proper practice for a disability support
Hi everyone, I am very recently diagnosed with BPD/CPTSD/ Depression/Anxiety and struggle with friendships and wanting to be around others who I have to have conversations with. I don't mind sitting within a busy cafe alone or being i
So probably around a month ago I was caught in a flashback moment where I was being yelled at cowering and it was then I realised that my inner child is still neglected and crying please someone hear and understand me. I'd love to say I started the hard w
One of the most essential things in prioritizing our mental health is to set boundaries. We must set boundaries in our lives in both our personal and professional space. It is an essential skill for maintaining healthy relationships. Sometimes, setting bo
I've just received a, completely fair, ultimatum from my partner. We are generally really good at talking about issues kindly and respectfully but once a year or so, I explode into a shocking, horrible rage, where I'm a different person. I wasn't hap
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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