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Having a hard time

Fluttershy1Senior Contributor15 Dec 2020, 12:28 pm AEDT

Having a hard time

Hiya,

Things have been really hard of recent I've been in and out of hospital for my physical and mental health, things just seem to be getting harder. Days are getting longer.
I've been getting changes in my support team... Things are becoming new again, more supports because of my SI attempts *Im safe*

My physical health is declining causing me to be in and out of hospital more.

I'm trying to stay strong but it's hard, things keep going upside down when I'm sort of getting better.

I just wish it could be eaiser not harder. I'm over going to and from hospital.

I've been disassociating a lot, finding it really hard to stay present, when I can stay present it isn't for long. I just wish I could be better.

I'm safe 🦋

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Zoe7Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 3:27 pm AEST

Re: Having a hard time

This may seem a out of the box suggestion but could you set up Teddy on the blanket and read to him @Fluttershy1 It allows you to focus on one thing whilst putting your own thoughts aside and being in the moment.

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 3:49 pm AEST

Re: Having a hard time

Hihi @Zoe7,

Charlie here🐣🧸🐣🧸

our host has dissociated, this time of year is really triggering for her🐣🧸

Charlie🐣🧸

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Zoe7Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 4:04 pm AEST

Re: Having a hard time

Hi Charlie. 👋 @Fluttershy1

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 4:11 pm AEST

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Hi hi @Zoe7 ,

you seem nice🐣🧸

charlie🐣🧸

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Zoe7Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 4:14 pm AEST

Re: Having a hard time

Thanks Charlie What do you like to do? @Fluttershy1

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 4:17 pm AEST

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@Zoe7 - watch Disney & listen to music & cuddle with teddy🐣🧸

Our host is crying, she is struggling🐣🧸

Charlie🐣🧸

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Zoe7Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 4:22 pm AEST

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Cuddling is nice Charlie. I have 3 fur babies that give me lots of cuddles. 😺🐶😺

It would be nice to write your host a card and tell her how important she is - something she can hold onto and feel some love from. Could you make her a card?

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 4:26 pm AEST

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@Zoe7 - yeah yeah me could, host is really creative.🐣🧸

we are collecting sea glass to make a wind chime like this🐣🧸

charlie🐣🧸

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Zoe7Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 4:29 pm AEST

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That is awesome to hear Charlie. Creativity is a great distraction and would be lovely for your host too. I am looking forward to seeing the image - it sounds like a wonderful idea - wind chimes can be very soothing but to be able to make your own would be very satisfying also. @Fluttershy1

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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor08 May 2021, 4:32 pm AEST

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@Zoe7 - can you sit and chat with me🐣🧸

you will like the photo of the idea with the sea glass🐣🧸

@Former-Member could you please approve the photo🐣🧸

Charlie🐣🧸

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