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As Monday looms I have been trying to work out how to move forward. Today I started collecting things for my coping box (thanks @Crazy_Bug_Lady). I bought some of my fave chocolates to put in and have been gathering bits and pieces. Happy for any other suggestions as to what to put in. I think I may need one for the car too. I'm thinking I may copy some pieces of wisdom from this forum and print them up to add in.
I'm hoping that I get to write more on this thread than the struggle thread as time goes by. Please feel free to add how you are moving forward as well. 💜😊
Hey @TAB. I wrote this before I read your last post on the other thread. I guess you did hit a small part of my archilles heel for now. No damage done, just twinged it really. I write this as a learning curve for me and to reassure you all is ok. 💜😊
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TABSenior Contributor
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serious is good, said the untrained standin group therapist wannabe ..so.. are your feelings not yours are just depend on what question you are asked? and.. you wouldn't get near me re My gun, and good luck with the snake .. bu ut guess you have dealt with some pretty heavy situations? ..no details please .. but you are strong then .. @Former-Member
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It's ok @TAB. Think I meant the opposite. That I'm weak now but working on becoming strong. I promise to end this here. Enough said for now. 💜😊
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TABSenior Contributor
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ok stuff the stuff up then Tab oh ok .. lol were you voted off the Island or was I?? ..ok peace out.. sorry... @Former-Member
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Think tonight it was me @TAB😳
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Unknown userMember
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Think it's time to pack up my hormones, my archilles heel and my kit bag and go to sleep. Just a heads up I'll probably delete a heap of this page tomorrow when I'm hopefully a bit more chilled. Goodnight to all 💜😊
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TABSenior Contributor
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there is no bad here presumably, @Former-Memberunless upsetting fogies or mods .. presumably there is a goal ooh horrible term ,of feeling better??? and you have done no wrong.. whats wrong with thoughts?? ok you want to take my gun, get a snake .. ok kick MI's ass then .. and I'll try and help you with it..
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TABSenior Contributor
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your choice. Deal with it @Former-Member the gun -taker .. I'm sure you can cope with it ..
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Ah no problem @Former-Member. I find that's what helps me too. You know I think it's a real positive because it sounds to me like you need to steer your next therapy session in the direction you would like. I'm not sure if therapists sit & wait, hear the same thing day in & out, but it's almost like giving them a kick start or steer in correct direction! 😊 Raining here this morning, oh well I'm happy with a quiet day. Hugs to you ❤
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your choice. Deal with it 
