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As Monday looms I have been trying to work out how to move forward. Today I started collecting things for my coping box (thanks @Crazy_Bug_Lady). I bought some of my fave chocolates to put in and have been gathering bits and pieces. Happy for any other suggestions as to what to put in. I think I may need one for the car too. I'm thinking I may copy some pieces of wisdom from this forum and print them up to add in.
I'm hoping that I get to write more on this thread than the struggle thread as time goes by. Please feel free to add how you are moving forward as well. 💜😊
hoping your day is good. Sun is shining here between showers today, dog is whining but I just got a call up to go out to lunch which is probably a good thing. 💜😊
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Relax and enjoy @Former-Member .... ❣
I'm off for a coffee-walk with D1. We were out sorting wedding stuff last night. It's getting closer by the minute ....
🌷💕
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Unknown userMember
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Oh poo, typed then lost my work @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope! Enjoy your outings girls. I'm holding yesterday beach session in my mind. It's raining on & off, but weather is picking up. Hooray. I'm making pumpkin soup ,my teeth a bit sensitive! 😏 No matter I hope tomorrow they improve. Take care ladies, be kind to self.😘
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Unknown userMember
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Don't you hate that @Former-Member. I hope your day goes smoothly too. Pumpkin soup sounds great. Have a good day💜😊
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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I'm making an @Former-Member vegie soup today .... 😊 ..... with pumpkin in it too
❤
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Unknown userMember
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Hi all, my day has been really busy in the end. Lunch took 4:5 hours 😝😄 I survived it. Now I just hope I don't deconstruct it like I usually do to find all the parts I messed up. I think I'm ok, just coming down off the adrenaline of going out and having to try to perform. It sounds like an easy day today but it was a day of confronting my past. Often this hasn't gone well but I survived. I get so messed up by it often. Ok enough of my cryptic rambling. How is everyone?
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TABSenior Contributor
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hi @Former-Member am okay. Yeah re deconstruction pick good bits if poss maybe. It all ended well, sounds. Leave it at that if poss mebbe ..??
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member. Today was hard - that's when you need to give yourself a gentle evening. A relaxing bath - something from your comfort box - a warm bed. You survived the long lunch. Try not to over think what may go wrong. Try to think of anything but that. You survived! Well done.
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Unknown userMember
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Thanks @utopia@TAB. Just getting my crazies out. Did you have a good day? What's been happening for you both?
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TABSenior Contributor
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..well ok @Former-Member maybe you edited the bit about standing on table arms waving dropping glasses, telling everyone loudly what you thought of them .. Hey .. it was a success then since that did not happen .. ..leave it at that
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