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Lee71Senior Contributor
Don't know How to tag by tahts ok. Km so very tired, but still sleep avoids me. I never feel safe, not in my surrounding, paranoia how the list goes on . Only neescti this for tthe next few days.
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover
It's October birthday and anniversary of her death 6 days later.
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Just 6 days... 💔 I am incredibly sorry to hear, Lee 💔
Thank you for telling us 😥
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@Emelia8 @NatureLover
I had her for six days. Six days. Just six days
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:I had her for six days. Six days. Just six days
That must be the most painful thing on earth. 💔
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover wrote:
@Lee71 wrote:I had her for six days. Six days. Just six days
That must be the most painful thing on earth. 💔
Goes beyond painful . Words can't describeﾆ not sure I can keep talking about it right now sorry @NatureLover @Emelia8Ikm kinda sinking fast
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
I'm very sorry, Lee. Do you need to go and do some self care? We are here for you whatever you need to do. ❤
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover just have to stay here I think.
Think that's the better option. I think
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
OK, Lee. I'm very sorry for bringing up something that's beyond painful.
If you think staying here's the better option, and need to keep talking...can I ask gently if you've been able to eat anything today?
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLoverdon't be sorry for bringing it up. I'm sure it would have comec up.
As I've said you can ask me anything.
I ate a little a fewx h ours ago .
I know it's almost time for y ou to go
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
You're so kind, Lee. ❤
I'm really pleased that you were able to eat something today. @Lee71
I wantvto thank you for your care this morning, it helped.
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