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Lee71Senior Contributor
Don't know How to tag by tahts ok. Km so very tired, but still sleep avoids me. I never feel safe, not in my surrounding, paranoia how the list goes on . Only neescti this for tthe next few days.
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLoverjust being here with me, keeping me talking helps . Have to keep talking.......
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
OK, Lee... 🙂
I have a delicate question I want to ask, but please feel free to not answer. I was wondering if you felt able to tell me the date of the bad anniversary you've got coming up...not what it is, just the date...just so I can be a bit sensitive of that date for you...?
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@Emelia8
Ifcyiure up for it
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover I can ,tell you when I can I
Also tell you what it is.
Via somg actually
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
OK, Lee, that would be good, if you feel you are able... 💔
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover yes, I can. You know I'm not religious either.
But this song. It will tell you what is coming for me, the anniversary
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Oh, Lee...I am so incredibly sorry to hear of your unspeakably heartbreaking loss...I'm crying for you 💔
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
It's not fair, that some people who've had pain all their life, should have more and terrible pain 💔
Do you feel able to mention the day and month?
@Lee71
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Emelia8Senior Contributor
Oh my, damn it Lee ... @Lee71 I cannot express to you how genuinely sorry I am. 🌹 I can never claim to know how you would feel about that because I have never had (nor lost) a child. Although that was not by choice. 😔
I do know how badly it affected my brother and his wife when they lost their baby daughter Charlotte last year at 15 weeks gestation through miscarriage. I think the very real grief suffered through loss to either stillbirth or miscarriage is often misunderstood and swept under the carpet. All I can say Lee, is that I am terribly terribly sorry. 💔 Did you ever undergo counselling afterwards? @NatureLover 🌿
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