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Sleeping too much

Sleeping too much

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Yeah I get it @Former-Member 💜🤗😘

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We sure understand @Former-Member

It sounds like it is all in your face right now - take your time - you know we are around here chatting about this and that all the time

We can be funny at times - right now -

Take it easy - and I hope things ease up on you

Dec

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Helllo @PurpleFlowers

our weekend has been very busy , yesterday we drove 2 hours to meet family that we will not see for christmas , had lunch there , there was 11 of us

and then had to drive 2 hours back home again

today we went to church and the we went food shopping , I usually do our`s and my mum`s shopping , today mum came with us , she is 85

so after shopping I put all mum`s shopping away and thn went home and put ours away , made late lunch

Hubby is asleep already , he has had it, can`t stand crowds, shopping , people etc etc

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Hi @PurpleFlowers .... 😊

I believe we met on another thread a while back ....

Sounds like you share some similarities with @Former-Member .... so you will be good for each other on days when she does want to talk about it .... you will see from previous posts that that happens .... the feeling cycle around a bit which probably happens for you too, as it does the rest of us ....

I'm travelling in cold countries at the moment .... go stand in the kitchen with the fridge door open, and that's me right now .... 0deg at the mo ....

Going to visit some places my grandma and great-grandparents came from today .... more than a bit excited ....

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Hi @RAWNEY .... 🤗

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Ha ... that would be ...

Hi @Former-Member ..... 🤗

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Hi @darrenhayes .... I know we chatted on another thread earlier in the year too .... have you posted something of your journey on another thread on the forums somewhere ?

If not, would you consider opening a thread ?

We can walk you through how to do that, and in your circumstances it would be good for us to be able to come and find you there to chat, as well as seeing you around the forums in general .... it's sorta like having your own place here for others to drop into ....

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Dear @PurpleFlowers

Wow, I love this part of your message: when you write about the vulnerability of your Mother.

I've copied it out: Just more difficult seeing her so worn out and struggling with the things she does.... Yes, you mentioned the guilt being out of proportion and I relate to that too. I do at times feel unnecessarily guilty and responsible (even though I now better, hard marrying the intellectual awareness with the feelings!!!!). .......... and wonder at times why I help at all...However, in some ways in her vulnerability it has stopped me (hating her, a lot happened in my early years) and she has never been there for me. It sounds crazy when I voice it out loud!!!!...

But you and me have voiced it out loud have'nt we ?

Is it time for us to feel a different feeling of us being there for our Mothers ? I am in this completely same situation with my Mother. I don't know if I should hold onto that complete fear that I have for my Mother or do I relax that grip over me and move into not letting the past have such a grip over me.

PP :0)

Ps: I havent forgotten you dear @Decadian ..........

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Hello @Faith-and-Hope

Yes, I think we did meet on another thread. I totally understand there are days and cycles we dont want to get into talking about anything especially when emotions are running high etc or there are physical and other challenges. Oh my gosh its quite warm at the moment cannot imagine that level of cold around xmas. So great your travelling, enjoy immensely and that is exciting your off to see where your grandparents are from. Take care 🙂 PurpleFlowers

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Hello @Former-Member

Totally understand, take care.. PurpleFlowers

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