Sleeping too much

Yes, I live close, that's what is so hard. No I can't cope with even a phone call. It was a brief, not even a half an hour visit last time and I felt crushed by all the problems and the trying to "suck me in" to it all again. I hope I will be able to visit briefly some time soon again, perhaps with hubby would be better. I will have to take him with me. He can do the talking, he's a good chatter, lol.

forgot to tagg you @Former-Member xo

Been good to chat @Former-Member I better go and do some things. I feel like crying, hope I can. At least there is a bit of a relief after crying, trouble is, it's hard to cry sometimes. xoxoxoxoxo chat soon.

Cloudy here now, did you get the storm?

I hope that you are feeling ok, here if you need to chat, but later, lol........ xo

Hi @Former-Member

Sorry the jokes did not work on your mother. I liked them. My mother and had different beliefs and characteristics re mammaries and that started off my whole mothering relationships with her as a nanna in a shemozzle. Do what you believe is right for YOU and her. I found the best way when my mother was dying .. was to make a clear commitment to myself and plan & limit but make it regular contact rather than go with her flow .. as there was never anything flowing anyway. I stuck to my plans and saw her enough. Nothing would have changed anyway. It was hard and I was triggered but mostly I was able to keep it together for my son.

You have a long journey and accomodation to worry about .. so it is like me with my brother in Germany .. nothing much you can do .. he is out of intensive care .. so I feel relieved.