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Sleeping too much
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Nighty night @Former-Member xoxo
All the best tomorrow @TAB I hope that you sleep ok tonight. 
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TABSenior Contributor
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thankx @Former-Member had huge sleep this afternoon, like over 4 hours, will stay up late, chance of snooze on long trip to work, will be fine 
thankyou ..you have a good day too
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Lol @Former-Member ... we're there cos we're not perfect .... but I'm sorry to hear you haven't found anywhere you feel comfortable .... and so awkward that they didn't follow you up and support you where you were so involved before .... yeah ... not what it's supposed to be about ....
I lived in towns where we didn't have a church, unless a visiting pastor flew in sometimes.
@Former-Member is so right .... it's living the values and leading with care and compassion. Sounds like you've kept all that in place @Former-Member ....
❤️💕
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PeppiPattySenior Contributor
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Good Luck @TAB
Nighty night from me but........
PP
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Thanks for your really kind words @Former-Member. It is really nice to know that my words help a bit. When you hit crisis mode I feel it but in a good way. It makes my adrenaline pump and I forget my problems for a while and focus on you. I always get scared but not in a terrifying way. I just know that, like me, it's hard to predict what will tip you over the edge. I knew you'd had a tough week so I was really hoping this wasn't going to tip you over.
I'm really proud of you that you've come through this and it seems in record time. It feels like you've had a quiet but reflective day today. I love your dream. I hope one day it comes true. I think my ideal dream would be the same. I don't dream much lately and if I do it's been bad dreams.
I just can't seem to find myself at the moment. I am finding very few moments in a week where I'm just ok. I seem to be anxious a lot lately. I'm not having such big emotional swings but think maybe feel more depressed. I've been crying a lot which is unlike me. Everything has seemed like such an effort. Like you I still don't know the thing that I'm here for but we'll work it out as we go. Take good care of you💜🤗
I'm really proud of you that you've come through this and it seems in record time. It feels like you've had a quiet but reflective day today. I love your dream. I hope one day it comes true. I think my ideal dream would be the same. I don't dream much lately and if I do it's been bad dreams.
I just can't seem to find myself at the moment. I am finding very few moments in a week where I'm just ok. I seem to be anxious a lot lately. I'm not having such big emotional swings but think maybe feel more depressed. I've been crying a lot which is unlike me. Everything has seemed like such an effort. Like you I still don't know the thing that I'm here for but we'll work it out as we go. Take good care of you💜🤗
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Thanks @TAB Wow! 4 hours, you must have needed it.
@Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @PeppiPatty I think I was put in the "too hard basket" because of all the abuse/assaults etc., people don't know what to say or do. I said to one friend, I just need a friend to talk to, but I think it's to much for some people. She was too busy with church stuff, I couldn't be bothered chasing people. Alot are just too busy with church stuff to be there for people. They usually want you to join their groups, but I really don't feel up to it, been there, done that, lol. Sorry, I really shouldn't bad mouth people. I'm sure they mean well and do what they think is right.
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TABSenior Contributor
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thanks @PeppiPatty nite
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I'm doing the wrong thing by bad mouthing the church and the people, sorry @Faith-and-Hope @Former-Member @PeppiPatty
I need to make sure that I am doing the right thing. They would be happy for me to join their groups etc. There was a time when I really needed them, but I'm ok now. I have all of you to chat to, lol. 
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TABSenior Contributor
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well I hadnt had much sleep last night @Former-Member just a suggestion re church .. if you want help and to share that stuff it maybe better to go to one of their places that is used to dealing with it? still could go to usual church, or find a more specialised congregation if thats what you need ..just mulling on it, yes sure they dont know what to make of that, but some do, just have to find one that works, or do it as 'add on' to usual sunday service maybe?
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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@Former-Member .... it's so backwards, isn't it ? That's where it becomes like a club. Can see why you don't miss it .... like @PeppiPatty's ladies said ... you'll attend somewhere if / when you want to ....
Have you had a good day ? I haven't been back through all the posts, but you're sounding chatty tonight. You're daughters blinds sound like they've made a really nice difference, and I agree, it helps the kids to be successful when they've got supportive parents .... but it's not a given. Well done to both of you ....
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