Sleeping too much

My sister didn't even come to my daughter's funeral...my dad died three months before and she said she couldn't do another funeral so soon. But we had an argument via Facebook in which I called her on things I would normally have let slide...she said some pretty horrible things (especially considering I had just lost my daughter). Strange how devastating loss allowed me to be honest and say what I thought. I am closer to my friends than I have ever been to her. I don't care if I never see her again (highly likely) At least now I don't have to be polite and silently put up with things to keep the peace. I like genuine, authentic relationships. We don't choose our family so we're stuck with what we get.

..well I have been known to be a regular walker, even did a 12k long time ago now in 1hr 45 to my current disbelief lol @Former-Member re advice as in rest at start

Hi @Former-Member Thanks for thinking of me.

Good on you for sticking with the walking despite how you feel. Eventually you will feel better, if you hang in there. Walking is good for many reasons, helps produce brain chemicals, it will eventually help lower your cholestorol as well, good for overall health.

You have so many sad memories. Sending you a big hug. xoxo

I too have toxic siblings. I have chosen not to have them in my life. It's just not worth it, too draining emotionally.

I noticed your message in the Beer Garden @TAB You must be so relieved to have the _oot canal finished. It's an awful procedure to have done. Sounds like you are feelig a bit better today, that's good.

Thinking of you @Faith-and-Hope I hope that you are resting and looking after yourself. You've been through alot lately and need to take care of yourself. Great news about your daughter passing her TAFE certificate. I'll bet your looking forward to going on your holiday, sounds lovely.

Hello to @utopia @Decadian and hello to @Misty1 I haven't met you yet Misty. Nice to meet you.

Hello to anyone else on here.

@Former-Member Are you ok? I hope that you are. It's not like you to be so quiet. You must not be feeling well. I hope you feel better soon. Rest up, you must need it. xo

he ello @Former-Member yeah it's not finished, just for time being, still have another round left, but they dont want to do that for ages.. yes, feeling better, forced out by dental appt that 'rode' it a bit ie since I'm out sorta stuff ala @Faith-and-Hope 's past advice

..and yeah ,, hope Leezy;s ok @Former-Member MIA, hope you are OK if you read this and I know not being on here is not necessarily a sign things not OK , but thinking off you

Hello @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @TAB, @utopia, @Misty1

thank you for the @Former-Member, how are you today xx

Oh bummer, _oot canal not finished. @TAB

The same thing happened to me when I had mine done years ago. The kept on having to work on the tooth, to make sure there wasn't any infection left in there. Not sure I'd do it again.

Back on later. Just watching something.

Hi @Shaz51 I've been struggling every day lately. Been trying to work on things differently.

Acknowledge bad feelings/thoughts and let them pass. And trying to spend time on mindfullness.

Anyway, how are you Shaz? I'll be back on here later. Sorry. xo

Interesting that you mention difficult siblings @Former-Member - I've just been chatting to @Wolfies here about her challenges with her sister. She is wanting to develop more coping strategies - maybe you or others would like to read her thread and offer some suggestions?