Sleeping too much

well, it's in the past re me, have learnt since then, ie to be choosier about who I tell what or give time of day, no big secrets really, am just a bit out of the ordinary, and sometimes that's enough for some to feed on ..anyhoo..you;ll be fine am dealing with own muddle atm, will cheer up lol @Former-Member

Hi @SC22

I'm Decadian - one of the onlys - I have been on my own for over 25 years now - and most of the time I am used to it - but I certainly know what you are talking about

I joined this site just after Easter when I spent four days alone sitting with my badly bruised foot elevated and the weather was pretty bad I seem to remember - and I started to feel like a piece of mouldy cheese - and on the Tuesday following Easter I woke up feeling very low on a scale of 1 - 10 - I might have registered 1.5 and that's being generous.

And this site has been really great - I can stand being alone, isolated is not to bad, but when I was stuck here alone for days I got a bad dose of the downers - ooohhhhh - I used to think that loneliness did not draw people together - but here - it does

Of course - I have felt lonely in a crowd - I don't have many family members I see - my dd and her family from time to time - but my story goes back many years when stuff I don't need to mention now caused my parents did not want to help - they regretted it in the end and I felt vindicated when my father told me

But still - ostracism is a form of abuse - and my mother was into emotional abuse - I call my sister TS - Toxic Sister - and I have no idea what I did to cause all this - but if you are being treated in a similar manner and it sounds as if you are - you don't deserve that

One thing - regardless of how people treat you - you are worthy of being treated properly - and just because other people behave doesn't mean you have done anything to deserve that.

My dd has her moments - she is okay today - which is good -

You are not alone - we can have a Lonely Onlies Thread - who's is volunteering to start it? - and of course - no one is excluded - people can be lost and discarded even with a family living with them

You are not worthless -

I am glad you found us - very glad

Decadian

Hi everyone .... 😊

@Former-Member @Decadian

I found the chorus for the song you were talking about earlier .....

I cannot come to the banquet,
don't trouble me now.
I have married a wife; I have bought me a cow.
I have fields and commitments that cost a pretty sum.
Pray, hold me excused, I cannot come.

Its from Luke 14:12-24 - The Parable of the Great Banquet

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Hello @SC22, @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope, @Former-Member, @Decadian

Sending you hugs @SC22