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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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@BlueBayI don't expect you to say anything if you don't want to. I just wanted to let you know I am hearing how tough life is for you, and I am sitting in that space with you, so you don't have to feel alone with it.

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Thankyou @Sans911
It can be very lonely scary snd overwhelming
Thankyou for being here for me
Just being here is enough to help me feel some comfort
BB Xxoo

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I wish I had the answers everyone was looking for. I wish I had the answers for myself. It shouldn't be this hard for myself. It shouldn't be this hard for anyone.

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@BlueBay - just checking on how you are tonight. I've been thinking of you a lot today. Wanting to let you know I'm still looking out for you. 💙💜💚💛

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Hi @Sans911
I'm here

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How are you doing now @BlueBay?

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Not good @Sans911
I feel like crying to sleep
I'm angry feel like ripping into stuff
I'm not feeling well
It's all too hard

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@BlueBay - I'm sorry things aren't getting easier for you. Outlander have me an interesting tip when I get angry that may help. Throw some rolled up socks at the wall.

Can you call a helpline at all to talk things over like Lifeline or SCBS? What's the usual thing you do when you feel this distressed.

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@Sans911
I need to distract myself. Think I'll make a cup of tea and try to sleep. Or cry to sleep.
Hopefully I'll be better tomorrow.
Thsnks for your support Xxoo

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Remember the hot shower too @BlueBay, if you feel up to having one .....

💜

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