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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Ok @BlueBay. Please take care of yourself 💗💗💗

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There are things I can't write here. Things I can't tell most people. Including psychologist, psychiatrist, GP. These are major factors in my wellbeing. That leave me feeling at times like I'm living a double life. What are the reasons? First, there are legal factors at play. Second, I don't want the advice I know would be promoted. Third, loyalty to those I love. Fourth, it's all complicated. Leaving only allusions to these central life issues. But why write this if I can't say what the matter is? Simply to acknowledge out loud that there's more to my story than immediately meets the eye. Help myself to remember it, instead of slipping too easily into the lie. Understand that I am significantly on my own with it.

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Secret

Adult permutation

with a dose

of fear and

pride.

If the world was

less oppressive

I could speak

and cease to hide.

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I talk to myself.

I'm doing it now.

I hear myself

mouthing the words

as they appear on the screen

in syncopated rhythm

with the sound of the keys.

I talk to myself

when I mutter 'for f%*k's sake'

at little annoyances,

mistakes I've made,

admonishing myself,

with barely a thought

for what that does.

I talk to myself

when thinking really hard,

and perhaps quite deep,

trying to figure out

truths,

unconsciously voicing

the arguments out loud.

I talk to myself,

conversing about this

and that.

Mostly it happens without

consciously starting.

Neither do I remember

what I said.

I'm talking to myself

now, right here

on this page.

It's been a friendship,

with many ups and downs,

but it's lasted a distance

so far.

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@Mazarita 💕

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Hi @outlander, another late night for you by the looks of it. Me too.

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Whoosh and buzz

and a high pitched

pulsing frequency

in my head.

Blurs the line

between inside and

outside of me.

There in that place,

that goes in and

out of focus,

where everything resides,

me included.

Forever, it seems,

I have been trying

to see myself from

outside in.

Not knowing it's

kind of impossible,

perhaps not even

desirable.

Where is the balance

between self and other?

An endless question,

it has seemed,

and still does.

A classic conundrum, while

jazz music harmonises

these mental squeaks

and buzzes well.

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My inner child

Cry little girl cry
Mummy's here for you now
Cry little baby cry
I'm here for you

Cry little girl
You're loved you're wanted
Pls believe me you're loved
I'm here for you

You're older adult is here for you now
Hugging you holding you
And being there for you
Pls don't be angry

Just wipe your tears away
Don't be scared my baby
I'll cuddle you my little one

It's hard when not validated
Just want to hide away
Don't self harm my little one
I'll protect you

Pls love little one
I'll be there for you
I'm sorry what happened to you did
I'm really sorry you're hurting

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@BlueBay Leaving this for you and your inner child.

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Thankyou @Maggie xxoo
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