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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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Not sure it was me ..... but my son has been introduced to both and he said it’s part of my thinking ...... as have a couple of others. I put that down to my Mum and her experience with undiagnosed mi in her mother .....

Anyway, IFS (Internal Family Systwms) has taught me a lot too ...... but all in its own time. I hope the CBT is helping you in this moment.

💐💕

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Abandonment:

Why did you leave me

why did you go

i cried on my bed for you

all those years ago

The pain i was in

was hard to let go

i just wanted you

to be with me

But you were too busy

to even notice me

and what happened to me

all those years ago

I wanted you then

and even now

why did you leave me

all those years ago

I cried for you

in my bed

under my doona

i hid from those guys

Where were you

when i needed you

i wanted you to hug me

but you were not there

Why did you leave me

when i needed you the most

I couldn't call for you

because i was so scared

I still cry for you now

in my dreams and in real life

you didn't protect me

you abadoned me so

How can you do this to me

how can you let me go

why did you leave me

like this i never know

you can't do this again to me

i will not let you again

for i have been abandoned once

and i will never be abandoned again

you hurt me so much in my life

that i cry every day for what you did

the words you said to me

i will never forget in my life

I hate you

i love yoiu

but why did you go

when i needed you the most

why did you leave me

why did you go

i wanted you all those years ago

i wanted you to know

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@BlueBay, I can connect to this poem so much it's just how I feel towards certain people who should have been there but weren't

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Hi @Former-Member
It's to the people who weren't there for me when I was sexually abused as a child by three different guys. Abandonment is a huge thing for me and I still struggle with it.
Xxx

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Anger
I hate some people
Who hurt me so much
They took away my childhood
They took away my life

I'm angry today
Because I just am
I don't know if I want to live anymore
Life is too hard

I csnt do this anymore
This fighting to get better
This fighting off my trauma
It's tiring it's emotionsl

I don't want this anymore
I can't cope with this
I'm over it all

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Hi @BlueBay

KobeCat here, the afternoon moderator. I realise things are not so great for you right now...

Just checking in to see if there is any support I can offer you today,

Kindest regards,

Kobecat

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Hi @KobeCat
It's just too hard
I am struggling
I needed to express my feelings and thoughts

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HI @BlueBay

Hopefully the community is here supporting you through these rough times.

Kobe x

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Hi @BlueBay Like=hearing you. I am sorry you are struggling so much and hurting.

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Thankyou @Sans911
I don't know what to say
Everything is hard atm
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