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Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Writing As A Form Of Therapy

Hi all,

I have found throughout the course of my life that writing has been a constant companion to me. It has provided me with a way to vent my frustrations, to grapple with the eternal verities of life that confound and delight me, to explore ideas and concepts, and to try to put into words the often chaotic moods and thoughts that result from having a mind that's a little bit odd...

I have written lots of poems, especially in the last 3 or 4 years, dealing with depression and bipolar. They help me to process and understand some of the things that are happening in this twisted little noodle of mine. As such, writing has become one of my main forms of therapy.

One of the best things that I find about writing is that it can act as a kind of mood diary. I can read things that I had previously written, and it will quite often map out where I was at during the time of writing. The words I spread across the page act as signposts of my progress, too. As my self knowledge increases and my life journey progresses, I find that it affects how I write and what I write...

Often, we do not see the thousands of tiny little changes to our selves that our life experiences cause over the years. It can be very helpful to re-read old writings, in order to see how far we have come, what we have improved, where we have fallen back into old harmful habits, and the things that we have learned.

The language that we use in our writings and in our thoughts and in our speech is very important. It can reveal a lot about our selves, our states of mind, and our moods...

That language, it can become a self-fulfilling prophecy. I believe that we attract certain kinds of people around us, and create (or at least influence) life situations based on our choice of language. It helps define who we are as a person.

Negative thinking, self-deprecation, self-hatred, these sorts of dangerous life traps are often revealed in our choice of words. So too are the positive things. It all starts with a glass. How we describe the glass and the quantity and quality of its contents, that's where language comes into it, and it can shape our very lives and the lives of those around us.

Writing... it is my solace and my main tool of self-analysis. It is my favourite form of therapy...

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I was just reading about the side effects on another thread @Mazarita i hope those effects settle. Makes for interesting poems though lol.

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Glad you enjoyed the poem, @outlander.

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Love your poem @Mazarita and especially it's rhythm.

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Thanks, @eth. I like to write the poems fairly quickly and spontaneously. In a way I try to do it before thinking about it too much. That way my internal critic doesn't get in the way. If I spend too much time thinking about it, my mind gets in the way and inhibits my writing. It means that most of my poems are incomplete drafts mainly, like sketches. Feels like a good release writing them.

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mixed up

or just so tired

there are no words.

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I have 250 poems written over 30 years eg

THE BLACK WIDOW

The male black widow spider tried all his life
He tried to tickle the hairy legs of his larger black widow wife.

Finally he had a win, something at last to gloat
She began to laugh aloud, as his leg slid down her throat

Poor male black widow, was always in strife
All because he didnt understand, the nature of his hair wife..

WK

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What's in a heartbeat

A micro second long

For some life is beginning

For others life is gone

But for those trapped in darkness

One second seems so long

One second is a lifetime

For those who can't hang on.

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@Maggie

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Don't get too close

It's dark inside

It's where my demons hide

Don't get too close

It's sad inside

It's where my tears will hide

Don't get too close

It's cold inside

It's where my heart has froze

Don't get too close

It's lonely inside

It's where my mouth is tied

Don't get too close

It's over inside

It's where there is no more fight

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💜💐 @Snowie .....

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