why can't I cope longer?

Hello @Former-Member

Thank you for your message. I can assure you no one has been asked not to talk to you sweetheart. That doesn't happen.

I'm sorry it feels that way. Hurts my heart you feel like that. I can only speak for me and tell you that I'm drowning a little, being carried out to sea. I feel like I'm not enough to anyone here at present. But I do see you, and I do think of you daily and hand on heart I care very much about you Eor 🙏 I should add I'm grateful for your friendship, it means a lot.

In response to the cupboard I don't have much insight other than go with your heart as to what to do. It sounds.like.you have a gift. As long as you aren't frightened then your answer will come.

I will ask a couple of friends that are gifted. See what they think and come back to you EOR 🙏

You ok @Former-Member ?

Hey @Former-Member , it sounds like you have some concerns about the forums at the moment. We are always open to working with members to help them use the forums in a way that benefits them and the rest of the community. We'd really like to help, if we can, would you mind send us an email at team@saneforums.org so that we can investigate exactly what's happening and what might be helpful moving forwards?

Hi @moxi - sorry to bother you, can you tell me if saneteam have told anyone not to interact with me? Simple question. Thanks for the offer to email but i know you less and don't feel safe behind the scenes. Here's ok with me. Thanks xox

@Former-Member Not a bother at all. I haven't heard of anything like that, I'm wondering if maybe sometimes people support a post without replying because they want you to know that they care, but aren't sure what to say. I will ask the day crew to contact you to discuss this with you because it sounds like you're feeling really concerned about this and we all want you to have a positive online experience.

Hello dear @Former-Member 💖

I apologise for not replying to your post about the new white cupboard. Fact is I am struggling a lot with this back of mine. Still in a lot of pain, and pain killers are not effective for severe nerve pain.

Fact is, I have been very quiet on the forums lately and rarely responding other than my thumbs up. For me, hitting the support button is not just acknowleding that I have read the post. It is also meant to let you know that I support you, and what you have said.

I will add that I have not been told by anyone to avoid you in any way. I like and admire you way too much to take heed of such advice anyway ... even if it was to ever occur. 🌸

I think you may be correct in supposing that maybe there are no real answers to your questions about the cupboard and your visions. It sounds distressing, and it makes me sad that it upsets you.

Not sure what to advise. Perhaps you could talk to your priest or minister? And I think it would also be appropriate to ask for a history of the cupboard from the former owner. As @Anastasia said too, it sounds like you have a gift. And I believe that often that gift can become a burden.

Sending you my love and a hug @Former-Member because yes .. I consider you my friend. 💞

Emelia

Hi @Former-Member I am truly sorry I up set you I did not mean to in any way shape of form, I press the support button every time I read around on different posts and personally don't know what to do about the cupboard, if it what it sounds like could the police check it for DNA or somethingen maybe I am over thinking this.

and the hello to @Shaz I do it all the time when I see her name she helped me big time when I first got on this forum she is one of the most helpful kind soles on the forum, sorry again if I affended you I truly like you please let me know how you go with the cupboard from @Clawde

tagging in @Anastasia @Appleblossom @Emelia8 sorry again if I upset anyone 😢

Hello again @Former-Member

Well I consider you a friend so I hope.in time you can consider me one too.

The advice I received back from my tarot lady is to cleanse the cupboard. Clear the energies, make it tur own so to speak...hope this helps.

Here is a general cleansing ritual that I perform on all of my secondhand finds.

Physically wash the item: use natural or environmentally friendly soap cleanser to remove any dirt, dust, or debris from the item.

Place a clean white cloth on a table, or floor area where the items will not be disturbed. This works for small to medium sized items. If the item is really large you can skip this step.

The cloth and object(s) should be in a bright sunlit room. The sun is a very powerful healing and cleansing aid. The items should be placed in the sunlight anywhere from 5 minutes to an hour. (This step is ideal, but for those who find this challenging or impossible for whatever reason it ok to skip this step).

Light a bundle of dried white sage: Smudge the object by allowing the smoke to cover and encompass completely. if it is an item that opens and closes, be sure to open any compartments, drawers, or doors to allow the smoke to flow freely.

Say a Prayer Or blessing: This is wonderful for setting your intention for the clearing of the items. Please feel free to ask for the divine aid of any spiritual helper you feel comfortable in aiding you in protection, this can be a deity, archangel, or spirit guide. Ask that any and all stagnant energy and energetic attachments be cleansed and released from the items. that your items be infused with positive and vibrant light, to assure that these items align with providing your home or workspace with love and all that is of higher vibrational energy. End Your prayer or blessing by thanking Great spirit, God, your angels, or guides, ect.

Hey @Former-Member,

I just wanted to let you know the email provided by @moxi will still reach the SANE team, and I'd really like to encourage you to get in touch with us directly if you have concerns so we can support you and work with you to ensure they are resolved. If you'd feel more comfortable, you're welcome to specify in your email that you would only like to liaise with the SANE team and we'll get back to you. We are here to support you. All the very best,

TideisTurning 💜