A question for the ladies

@outlander well you are doing everything you should looking after your health. I would definitely get another pap smear done asap (I dont have to have those done again horray!!! :D). On a serious note though keep putting the pressure on the medicos and dont let them fob you off because my uterus was turning cancerous when they got it out.

I have to go to bed it is pumpkin hour but promise me you will have all the tests again and more. Dont give up and say it is all too hard to have them done. One could save your life.

hello @outlander@Bunniekins

I too had endometriosis and had an operation to cut out what they believed to be a tumour but was a large mass of endometriosis..

My sister had similar problems to you @Bunniekins ..she also had an hysterectomy..

@outlander

Mine was not detected by ultrasound either...nothing to do with weight..I have a tiny body frame...

My gp at the time was extremely thorough....one of those who think outside of the square and do not give up until they are satisfied that they have an answer..

A gp should be examing you...not a nurse...I am not sure of the circumstances there though...

I had a vaginal probe test which highlighted the mass..

Transvaginal ultrasound is a test used to look at a woman's uterus, ovaries, tubes, ... The ultrasound probe will be placed inside the vagina.

It does not hurt...gives a thorough picture of what is happening...

Pain wise I often had time off of work...would just have to lay down with a hot water bottle....took stronger pain killers that were often used for migraines back then...sipped water...rested..

If you are going camping...will you be able to find a spot where you can lay down a blanket or towel and read or just close your eyes...relax...look around....?

Telling others that you have a headache and stomach ache should suffice..

The fact that you are missing out on periods altogether means that your hormones are very confused so to speak.

It is more common than people realise...as many of us were brought up believing the subject to be taboo..

This would also be affecting your self esteem...energy levels..

None of this is untoward or about you as a person...

It is good that you started this thread as you clearly want answers....

keep on asking the doctor questions...

take care

Have been catching up on what's happening with you in this thread and the other one about selfishness, @outlander (you are not selfish!) Hugs for what you are going through with physical health, negative self talk and lack of support from family.

Also want to add another voice encouraging you to go to a GP (any GP available) about what's going on with your periods. I'd suggest it's probably nothing too sinister, but it would be definitely wise to have it checked further.

If you are nervous about seeing a GP, I'd suggest writing notes about your symptoms, any questions you have, and what outcomes you want from the doctor regarding testing and better management of your pain. When I do this, I just write in a notepad app on my mobile and refer to it while I'm in the consultation. I'd also suggest making a long appointment when you ring the reception. This gives more time for the doctor to be able to pay more attention to your needs.

Hugs again and hope you feel better soon.