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I don't see the point in living anymore. I can't. I've called helplines but tonight it's just not helped. I've spent way too much time in hospital over the years and nothings ever helped.
Sounding to me like they don’t want to have to take responsibility for the problem @The-red-centaur ..... keep working with your counsellor and case worker. See what they say maybe ?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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I hate my stupid life. I can't do this anymore..
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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Hey @The-red-centaur I am around if you want to chat
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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@Zoe7 hi I just feel like everything is against me and better dead. I can't sort my life out or face the things getting to me, and when I try to I get told it my fault. Like was it my fault that I was abused as a kid so I don't understand boundaries. and that because of what happened to me I don't know how to say no so when I was harassed again I didn't know what to do. So of course it's my fault. It's my fcking fault I'm not dead right now.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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I understand your frustrations and pain here @The-red-centaur - it is definitelly not your fault - any of this - sometimes people honestly do not understand how much words can hurt - especially where you have had a life of trauma. I am glad you are still here but it super sucks that you are feeling so down tonight. I am more than happy to be here with you and listen
Are you still in hospital?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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I left hospital last Wednesday and got back from the recovery program Monday @Zoe7
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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How are you feeling about being back home @The-red-centaur - or is that where people are seeing you as unimportant?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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I usually like being at home @Zoe7 it's the boss of the organisation that runs my accommodation that's made me feel like its my fault.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
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What did they do to make you feel that way @The-red-centaur?
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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor
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Because they said I should have been stronger with my boundaries and blocked him sooner. I told him a few times to leave me alone and I that what he was doing was inappropriate. I thought that would be clear. @Zoe7 anyway it doesn't matter. I should shut up and leave, it is my fault anyway. I should have reported him 3 years ago when he was harassing me and stalking me back then.
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