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When life gets you down... The best thing you can do... Is reach out... And it's also good too have people who turn too you for support... Both as important as the other...
And whoever I've missed... Feel free to tag someone I've missed...
The real world and what we have around us... Is what will determine a bad day between a good... Problems we have in our real lives... Can only be solved in our real lives... And I've found... It's usually revolved around our relationships with others...
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@eudemonism eudemonism I know how you feel. I miss the magic that I had. Everything was magical but I also had an extreme darkness which was destroying me. I had to let it go to live. I just hope that when pass from this life to the next that a little bit will stay with me. I don't want to forget it all.....
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eudemonismSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins Surely life wasn't meant to be this hard?
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@eudemonism I don't know eudemonism, you wouldn't think so would you.
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eudemonismSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins spend a lifetime trying to work it out
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@eudemonism eudemonism you could and even then I am pretty sure one still wouldn't have an answer.
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eudemonismSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins greenpea nah I'm riddled with anxiety at the moment and it don't look like it's gonna go away anytime soon.
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eudemonismSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins half the problem is being alone all the time. And feeling like I need to give and receive care. Not on a friendship level. But, On a partner level. It's hard to find.
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@eudemonism But there is also a great feeling of happiness when one can give their partner something without necessarily receiving anything back. Like a foot massage or bringing in breakfast it doesnt have to cost anything it is just showing appreciation that they are your partner and you love and care for them. In return they will show their appreciation too. It works both ways. Giving can be as much enjoyment as receiving.
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eudemonismSenior Contributor
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@Bunniekins it's a beautiful day here and I just don't feel like doing anything...
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BunniekinsSenior Contributor
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@eudemonism eudemonism you know what you dont have to do anything if you dont want to. You can see it is a beautiful day and that might be enough for you today. Maybe you might like to sit outside if you can for 5 - 10 mins and soak up a bit of sunshine. That again is okay. 🙂
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