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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

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First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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I have IBS as well @Adge - it is not an easy thing to deal with - there are a lot of things I cannot eat and some that I can but in combination with other things can bring on the pain. I am usually pretty good at knowing what I can and can't eat and my family make provisions for that when we have family celebrations together - my sister has even done some research of her own to know more about the condition and will ask me before she prepares a meal when we get together if there is anything I cannot have.

The list of things I have physically 'wrong' with me would take a page lol so I won't go into them all but suffice to say it was easy for my GP to find 3 things and thus use the chronic disease management plan for the physio

My blood pressure is under control with medication now @Adge and it was most likely caused by meds I was on in the first place and since being off those it has returned to normal - but we still need to keep an eye on it just in case.

@Sophia1 how are you feeling at the moment - have you been back in the pool?

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I believe in the proactive ... rehab exercises approach. @Adge

I found a very good rehab and sports medicine gym advisor and saw him for a few years ... and went to the gym for about 8 years and swim etc ... he saved my life and was very clear about physiology so I know now when some one is not "onto it".

I also know it because of hand issues and piano ... scoliosis is such a variable condition it is important to know what is useful and what may make things worse.

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My goodness..

I was taking a break from the computer...sitting...

then we had no internet until later this evening..

How can one person be misunderstood by so many people?

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Hi @Sophia1 🤗💕

I thought you meant you were just taking a break from the computer for a while ..... we didn’t all misunderstand you ....

I had internet issues yesterday.

Heading for bed now.

Catch up with you again tomorrow ....

Goodnight Hon.

😴

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@Sophia1 I too only thought you were taking a computer/forum break for the evening Hon. We all need to do that for ourselves on occasions - sorry your post was misunderstood - it can happen with the written word sometimes!

Do you have plans for today? Any more pool work to come? I had my first hydrotherapy session on Tuesday - it definitely made me feel a lot sorer but I can see how longer term it is going to help strengthen my back and upper legs to be able to alleviate some of the pain. I have 3 more sessions with the physio then I can do the exercises on my own.

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Hello @Adge

I dont go swimming in the pool....

I do very gentle exercises....and walking....that is all...

I am only just starting my rehabilitation period this week...

I would love to be able to swim again...

A long term goal for the future....1 - 2 years....

nearly drowning would have been an extremely frightening experience ...once let alone 3 times...very courageous to be back in the water since ....

I do hope that you give yourself credit for that....

Hopefully you can work something out that will eventually provide you with some relief.....

This of course can become a domino effect...slight relief in one area...some light..some hope...easing of tension...anxiety...depression to some degree...

take care

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@Faith-and-Hope


@Faith-and-Hope wrote:

Hi @Sophia1 🤗💕

I thought you meant you were just taking a break from the computer for a while ..... we didn’t all misunderstand you ....

I had internet issues yesterday.

Heading for bed now.

Catch up with you again tomorrow ....

Goodnight Hon.

😴


Again Faith that is not my meaning....

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Ok @Sophia1, sorry .... 💕

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Afternoon @Sophia1 I hope your time in the pool went okish. I tried hydrotherapy for back pain years ago, I only managed two sessions. I couldn't handle being touched, seemed momentarily worse than the back pain.

Yes I do look at the paver from different angles, it would have been better etc. but it's in and staying right there. No more yet, I just go with the flow. It will happen before summer.

My flat has a heat pump. I've only been here just over a year and it was put in last year. I just have trouble turning it on for me. Silly I know, but self care is a hard one. Small steps of progress.

Comedies sounds good. I watched Dr Martin the other day, he's a funny man, I always manage to laugh when watching.

A fragile day for me, another of many. Take care. Heart colour is just fine. 💜💕💜

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Thanks @Sophia1

I hope the gentle walking exercises help you, in the pool.

That's what I do with most clients who I take in the pool - walking laps.

I don't choose to go in the pool (for myself), but I have to for work swim activities. It's tolerable, sometimes even slightly enjoyable.

Yes, there is a light at the end of the tunnel (you reminded me of) - remember that old saying?

Adge

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