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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

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First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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@Sophia1

Are you ok? I am worried about you.
Please take care of yourself and then come back to us when you feel strong enough.

Meggle

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hi @Sophia1 , thought you might like to see the progress on the motobike.

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@Sophia1

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Wow

wow

wow

Your talents .. skills just do not stop

Will write soon

am tired

@Jacques

hugs

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Much appreciated @outlander

am tired

will write soon

hugs

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hello @Jacques

a couple of friends on another friend leaving soon and hard to find the words to say to them..

so I left them some music to rock away to...some good old blues and voices from many walks of life and cultures...what a better way to share music..

what music do you love

post me something for me to find another time

then I don't just have to write drivel to you..

I do hope that you know how spectacular a job that you have done on that bike..

Has it got a special place with security cameras and systems in place safeguarding such a beauty?

Hope that you are wearing a smile more these days..

my humour has come to the fore..

I think that my own mind is fed up with me laugh..

I have always been able to laugh at myself.

I do find humour in many situations....my safeguard I think..

well not a book so

ciao for now.

I am practising my italian again.

We are going overseas for a holiday.

Doctor told me to go away with husband as I did not want to go into hospital again as I spend more time in there trying to help the staff!!!

He gave me strict instructions to get away from everything and everyone.

So we are putting us first.

Husband not well and will not get better. Travel while we can.

All of the trauma in our lives will still be with us overseas...nothing will change it... out of our control anyway...

so we are going to live for a while.

He believes will get me out of self isolating..

Hilarious really I need to travel to another hemisphere to go outside more!!!

I will though trust me..

I will get lost I know..

Sorry.,.

Take care

Caio not adieu

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@Sophia1

So I am curious, just how many notifications did you have when you finally logged back on the forums? I tagged you in everything so I won’t be surprised if it’s a big number.

Your friend,

Meggle

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Gasped when I saw the number @Oaktree

thinKing 99? !

might have imagined

notifications from. Other threads and has been a while

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@Sophia1


Maybe it stops counting at 99!

Meggle

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Hello @tonys

I think that I read somewhere you wanted to be tagged back to here as had lost directions...I can relate.

I cannot keep up with all of the threads that you travel now and write to me from so when I go looking to respond I lose some of your posts.

The simple man poem I went looking for that on the real internet and my goodness so many versions...Can you post yours please.

In response to a message you left somewhere about meeting the waters edge; finding peace.

I work on this every day.

I want you to know that it is not mental illness that impacts me it is external life circumstances.

We have had so much loss and grief since September last year.

I could write a whole list out ...how would that help...you do not need my grief offloaded onto you.

So I take time out to settle my storms as much as I can in between new ones blowing up.

I am not upset with you (you wrote "sore at me" or something similar somewhere...goodness knows where..

Try to remember that the submarine is parked over here.

You can ask Sane to help you add it to subscriptions or notifications...cannot remember which one.

If you leave messages to me here. I am more likely to find them.

I can find Eternal Flower at trying makes it worse..... I smiled when I read changing it to trying makes it better...

That name is up to Eternal Flower really isn't it.

Handing over the reigns for others to manage the farm...Bookkeeper moving in permanently and going with you to cousins when you move there sounds like a wonderful fresh start for you all.

Winter quiet...The seasons all bring something.....The earth needs the four seasons for a reason......as do our minds.

I love winter.......Another conversation.

Will never be upset with you Tonys.

take care

Sophia1

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