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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

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First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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Hey @Sophia1 ,

Thank you for being open and putting this out on the table. Hopefully this will help clarify things.

We want all members to feel heard and supported on the forums.

If there's anything lingering issue, please feel free to email us on team@saneforums.org

As with any communication, especially text, there is chance for miscommunication. As much as we want to avoid miscommunication, it is inevitable.

Hence it is good to be transparent so as to be able to 'move on'. Members are welcome to continue communicating with each other, or if they feel safer not to, that's also fine.

The Forums team at SANE want to support you all @Sophia1 @Oaktree @tonys

Kindest, tyme

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Thanks @Sophia1 and @Oaktree Hey ladies ... I have seen a love and frienship tween you

two that I feel lucky too have witnessed.

Were a unit I as you know I never change.. My frienship is unwavering.

and remember old tonys fingers are falling of over here. I only ride an old fat pinto...

tonys

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Oh my dearest @Oaktree

I am so sorry that you too were deeply affected.

I have not held a grudge at all.

I have trod on eggshells though.

I think that we are both sensitive and are aware of this.

We both really do care about each other.

Can we make a special pact with @tonys as our beautiful guardian to watch over us as we watch over each other?

Can we agree to not worry that we have upset each other?

Can we agree that neither of us would ever want to do that?

Can we come up with a code

like wooden spoon!!

or how would you like to handle this

sometimes I jump in with a huge splash trying to save everyone creating a tidal wave.

Forgive me for upsetting you because you felt that you had upset me.

Sounds like we are back in whatever colour Rock town

what do you think?💜

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Hi @tyme I'm all good.. I don't actually know what happened.. . . .

Sometimes ignorance is bliss.. But I hope my dear friends @Sophia1 @Oaktree are ok

Peace full evening to you thyme.. tonys

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It’s ok @tyme

We are all great friends

just clearing old air

thanks

Meggle

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Thank you @tyme

Much appreciated.

We are all human and there is nothing wrong in asking for help I believe.

I think that it shows strength

I think that you are a very beautiful, warm, strong, funny lady @Oaktree and you are still finding your way back.

The forums have grown so much as well.

They are very overwhelming for me at times.

Thank you @tonys

You have been promoted to guardian

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Yes thanks @Sophia1

Back to Grey Rock!

Race you there!

I left the thanking ceremony there for you.

@tonys thought it was hilarious

Meggle

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Thats beautiful @Sophia1 @Oaktree Tonys is a bit slow, he doesnt actually know what happened

but tomorrow night we share a bottle at the . . . . I dunno where ever you tag me from tonys

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@Oaktree @tonys

just before we get back there

what code do you want?

wooden spoon? or something else

none of us want to do this again do we 💜

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Lol @tonys

You have been to a million threads tonight

Meggle

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