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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

hello @eudemonism @eth @outlander @Bunniekins @Mazarita @Silenus @NameUnknown @Grasshopper3 @patientpatient @soul @Former-Member @Determined @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Friendconnect @Teej @utopia @Queenie @Appleblossom @Zam @perseverer @Janna @Owlunar @Former-Member @Former-Member

First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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Ohh hugs my brother @Jacques

Hugs to your mum too 🥰❤

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@Sophia1 💕🍀🌸💞🤗

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@Sophia1

Freezing devices are a pain.

So good to have your warm and thoughtful presence and read all your messages to people.

@Shaz51 @RedHorse @Emelia8

@Jacques really good to read that you are well. Hope your mum gets meds that she needs.

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Hey @Sophia1 So lovely to see you Hon 💖

Toby sometimes loses his feet running up the hallway and ends up banging into the door. It doesn't seem to deter him from continuing his zoomies though. They certainly do have their own little personalities - which makes life interesting.

Hoping to get into the garden these holidays but need a few days of rest first ....been a very long term.

Sending you love and hugs for the next time you are here 💖💖💖💖💖

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Hello @Emelia8

I did try to write to many. Still not arrived.

I want to especially thank you though as I know you are in so much pain.

Your effort in responding is so warmly appreciated. Thank you.

I wish that I could talk to you on the phone or just listen to you.

Imagine that this is our phone call now.

I am ringing you to send you love; comfort and support.

I am mostly ringing you to listen to you should you want to talk.

If Hello is all that you can manage that is what shall be.

This imaginary phone call is for you and your needs.

I know that you are behind the bushes in a safe place for now observing as you do so well.

Much love

Sophia (oops nearly typed my actual name)

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A green heart for you today to bring nature into your room as it is the best healer for me.

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@Zoe7

a large response is on it's way somewhere; somehow; beyond me.

Take care butterfly

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@Appleblossom

You will be blossoming in a couple of months as you spread across the trees bringing hope and beauty to many.

What an appropriate user name you have

love Sophia 💚

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Dearest @Sophia1 Thank you so much for your letter to me this afternoon, that was lovely of you.

I read your Worry Room post and am sorry you are experiencing issues with a 'suspended post'. I hear you with regards to frustration around such 'technical' matters.

I'm sorry I haven't been around lately and my deepest apologies that this is a brief response, when a much longer and more supportive response is definitely called for. But I am living day by day, minute by minute just now. In the middle of EMDR processing therapy. Been going on for a couple of weeks now, twice a week, and will be progressing for another couple of weeks I think. It is really draining me, and I have nothing left to give just now.

However I hear you and I feel deeply for you as I know everything is really tough right now. But I know you will pull yourself through as you are one very strong lady, having been through so much in life. I just hope you are accessing whatever supports are at your disposal ... for any or all physical, emotional and psychological needs.

Much love and care being sent your way, on this gloomy wet afternoon.

Emelia 🤗💞

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Wow the best note on this planet 🌎 pleasure to read 👍

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Oh dear @Sophia1 Hate it when that happens but just seeing you here is response enough 💖

I am on holidays now and intend to get some of Cat's corner done. It has been 1 year since I lost her and I cannot believe how quickly that time has gone ...it really does still feel like just yesterday she was here with me giving squishy, purring cuddles 😥😺❤

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