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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

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First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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@Bunniekins @Sophia1 is a Prinzessin , well from German nobility lol

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Hey @Sophia1 I am looking forward to doing more of Cat's corner now it is the holidays so I will keep you updated when I begin. 👍 Not up to it right now but hoping in a week or so I can gain a bit more strength and a better mindset to begin.

Love, hugs and strength to you my beautiful friend

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@Sophia1 Merry Christmas Hon 🎄💖

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Merry Christmas @Zoe7

Thinking of you also with everything that you have had to endure this year alone..

I would love to be tagged with updates of the new sanctuary..

My sanctuary is overgrown with weeds and items tossed there by husband whilst working on other projects..

He is just not a person who cleans up.

He leaves trails everywhere..

Still I would rather have him with me and put up with the trails..

Despite the weeds and items to be tossed ....the pot that cat no 2 who is there broke when jumping off a table of pots causing them to fall on ground and break...this pot lies on top of her area....Would you believe that the plant in their is still alive and has flowered...She is still sending me messages..

I went to the beach where my dad's ashes were spread on thursday..I wrote another unpersonalised message of love for him..in the sand beginning the shape of a heart..

Walking back my eye was drawn to a reasonable size dark reddish stone in the shape of a heart...on the sand..

For me my dad is still sending me messages during spiritual moments..

The reddish stone in the shape of a heart is now on my kitchen island bench amongst other shaped hearts..some broken..

My long time ago late dog ashes are still in her urn..younger son at the time did not want them spread. The urn is ceramic.

Would you believe I dropped it about a month ago and some of the ashes fell out..

The most unusual reaction was that I laughed wholeheartedly....

she was sending me a message...

I think it is way past the time that I should be introduced to the other two past loving pets in the sanctuary!

She still has not got there yet..

On the list..

Take care...be gentle with yourself and will reply when am able to be here.

love Sophia (nearly put my real name)

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Merry Christmas @Sophia1

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Hello @Appleblossom @Adge @Jacques @Krishna @TAB @Shaz51 @Bunniekins @Former-Member @Zoe7 @BlueBay @Anastasia @Exoplanet @Emelia8 @outlander @Snowie @Eve7 @Clawde @RedHorse @HenryX @Oaktree @NatureLover @chibam sorry cannot type your user name The ham

and many others whom I have missed due to my absence...

also to all of the staff, peer support workers, community guides, moderators and people behind the scenes..

I wish for you all a time for peace, love, warmth and sharing no matter how or with whom...pets included..

Hope to spend more time with you in the New Year

love and warm wishes

Sophia

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merry christmas and a happy new year @Emelia8

a big happy birthday to a precious Holly who is working so hard at looking after you and being by your side..

This you can always carry in your heart...her loyalty and strong love for you..

I do hope that you make it to your friends...if only to stay for a short while..

The experience will bring a shift in what you have endured of late..

I continue to wish you to find some relief in your pain ....as well as your grief...all very entwined.

a big hug Emelia being ever so careful....

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Thankyou for your lovely message!

On behalf of all the moderators here on the forums we wish you all a safe and peaceful holiday season! 🙂

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All the Very Best to You for Christmas & the New Year @Sophia1

Blessings...

Adge

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Thank you @Calvin

Nice to meet you and thank you for helping to keep us all safe on here..

Sophia

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