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Living with Ourselves

Living with Ourselves

hello @eudemonism @eth @outlander @Bunniekins @Mazarita @Silenus @NameUnknown @Grasshopper3 @patientpatient @soul @Former-Member @Determined @Shaz51 @Former-Member @Friendconnect @Teej @utopia @Queenie @Appleblossom @Zam @perseverer @Janna @Owlunar @Former-Member @Former-Member

First of all I wanted to let you know that I have conversed with all of you at some stage on both sides of the forum..

It was my intention to close two of my threads and change my name in the kindest way for all of you...

I commenced this process on the 12th March and today is the first day that I have access to actually post or respond to anyone....I was in the last couple of days able to register a new name and like some posts...

I am so sorry that my profile ended so abruptly that was definitely not my intention....

In fact if I had done it my way.. instead of thinking would be better to be guided through the process....I would have just written on one of my threads my reason for closing my account tagging you all in....then requested account to be closed and username put to bed so to speak

I have chosen to take this path in order to protect my family's sense of safety .. privacy...health..

Please let me reassure you that this has nothing to do with any members on here...

I have tagged each and everyone of you because you have given me support and invited me into a little of your worlds...priceless experiences...I have felt heard and valued on here....Thank you all so much..

Moving forward ...this is who I am now and hope to be able to converse on the forum living in the now not the past...therefore no mention of my previous username necessary...

If you do not know who I am...that is fine also...perhaps all of the above is not relevant for you..

take care

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Any time @Sophia1 😀

Sorry to hear how difficult things are for you right now. Sleep well, and get back to us when you can. Ive been pretty quiet lately, but am still usually around.

Take care 💜

Hello @eudemonism @Adge @outlander @Bunniekins

Sherry

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Hugs @Sophia1
Share whatever you like, we're here to support you through the ups and the downs. 💕💕

@Former-Member ❤❤

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@Sophia1 Hey Sophia1 I agree with @Former-Member anytime you want to write about anything we are here for you. Hoping you are feeling a bit better soon. Love peaxxx

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Yea @Sophia1

I've learned you gotta watch the nature of all people . Regardless of who they pose to be. In general I've learned that the theme and motives of all people are very similar . Something everyone needs to be wary of. Literally costs verse benefits...

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@eudemonism wrote:

Yea @Sophia1

I've learned you gotta watch the nature of all people . Regardless of who they pose to be. In general I've learned that the theme and motives of all people are very similar . Something everyone needs to be wary of. Literally costs verse benefits...


I quoted your above response so that my foggy brain can remember exactly what you wrote..

Yes a certain amount of self first needs to be in place when meeting new people along with those we already know..

I have always had such a different array of friends with varying interests..I like it that way as it allows me some variety in my life... I also get on very well with older people...so many have a wealth of knowledge...often a fabulous sense of humour along with a twinkle in their eye...

I think that if you trust your intuition, the people respect you and your personal boundaries, you can work out who you say hello to as you walk on by, who you stop and talk to briefly, who you invite over to your place or go out with..

The above forever changing depending on how we are ourselves and how they are..

So no easy answer.

Trust your instincts..

I hope some of that makes sense..reading back feels like gobbledy goo..

feel free to let me know

🌞🤔

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Hello @Maggie @Bunniekins @Former-Member @Adge @outlander @eudemonism

We have probably all experienced something on the above list.

I like to read the 5 signs to remind myself as some people in life come across as caring and then become controlling.

Wouldn't it be lovely to be able to fly

I have always wanted to fly over the land with my own wings..

sending you all love and serenity ...moments of escape from this mad world..

🧡💛💚💙💜🤎

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Yes to the dynamic 5 @Sophia1 .😩😩😩

I have often wished I could fly on the back of a butterfly. I think the ride would be a smooth gentle one, with a view that’s out of thus world. 💕💕🦋🦋🦋🦋🦋

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@Sophia1

Hmm... yea ... i once got told there are two types of people ... givers and takers... not sure how true it is ... not sure which one i would be... but it's food for thought...

I'm having a tough time today . All the planets have aligned again . And I'm feeling under pressure by some force of nature that i have no control over .

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@Sophia1 My ex when I was psychotic was one of those people. He had no understanding of how sick I actually was .... now he is the extreme opposite. I have forgiven him but not forgotten ....

I would like to fly Super Sayan like around the world and then land on top of a mountain and just meditate :).

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@Sophia1 💚💚
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