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The Virtual Village - a space for parenting 'stuff'

The Virtual Village - a space for parenting 'stuff'

Hi everyone ☺

I'm guessing lots of people out there have heard the words "it takes a village to raise a child". It's one I believe in but one it seems many of us can really struggle with for lots of reasons. For those of us living with extra challenges like mental health related issues, it makes sense that being part of a strong and supportive network could be really helpful. I have found though, that extra challenges can make it extra challenging to find and be part of an understanding and supportive 'village' (and sometimes the people in our village are part of the issues/challenges - it can be a bit of a catch 22).
Maybe we could build a virtual kind of parenting support village here where we can share some of the ups and downs of raising kids, celebrate the good times, support each other through the not-so-good times, and connect with others who might "get it".
Tagging@Former-Member @Bubbles3 @Snowie @Former-Member @health4s @kv22 @Scarlet79 @CrazyTiger @defeatedmumma @Former-Member @NameUnknown (with no pressure to reply - more so you're aware that this space is here if you'd like to use it) and inviting anyone who'd like to jump in anytime to come along ☺

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@Blep it must have been in the air this morning my bub woke up at butt crack of dawn. Luckily theres 2 of us looking after him. So yes naps all round today haha just a series of sequential naps for all 3 of us haha. Just woke up xD I was last in line urghh haha @Shaz51 not fun!

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Hi @Faith-and-Hope ! That was beautifully said 🤩

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Thanks @HakunaKhunz ..... 👍

And I still remember my first post here feeling pretty daunting. Some lovely forumites were very warm and welcoming, and have since become friends here.

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ha ha I have been there my friends @HakunaKhunz , @Blep , @saltandpepper

ohhhh hugs

@Faith-and-Hope, @CheerBear

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Yeah everyone is so nice here I kind of dont want to leave haha. I'm a big isolater before the virus it's easier to control my emotions so this place is fantastic and I've made a few borderline personality disorder friends I feel so special haha @Faith-and-Hope

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@Shaz51 I wish I could but after doing some research today I have noticed my little man is going through his 4 month sleep regression. Just the cherry on top 😩😅

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Oh my @Faith-and-Hope that has got to be really hard. Have you begun creating a new friendship group where you are now?

Well you have to try and look on the bright side of every moment right? 😉

It seems like the people who are using these forums are so lovely. It always takes me a very long time to trust people because of past experiences but with being anonymous here it is a little easier to let go.

Very nice to meet you too 😁

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Yeah @CheerBear I have been making sure to do video calls with my mum So she can see her grandson grow

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I have found it really important to very mindfully increase my self-care level when other sreessors increase @Blep .....

There are amazing people here on the forums. Perhaps the experiences we have all undergone have heightened our awareness of the needs of others in the same struggle zone.

Lively that you video call your mum ❣️

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Just needing to say that I have had a small victory today with putting my little man to sleep in his crib! It took forever to get him to sleep and it has only been about 10mins but I am on the couch ALONE typing this!
*happy dance*
@Shaz51 @Faith-and-Hope @CheerBear
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