Life

Hi Bella

I had the bright and capable and try no matter what ... totally internalised. You still are bright and capable ... but your hands are full and you need to be careful about extra commitments.

Dont come down hard on yourself ... do you want to talk about it?

Sorry, i'm not sure what im doing anymore, or who i am exactly, just hiding away for a while i think

LJ

Hi @Former-Member

Are you okay? Has something happened?

No need to respond if you don't wish to. I respect your wish to 'hide away' but know we are with you.

I'll set up a camp fire and sit with you.

Thinking of you.

had first day back at work on wednesday and it didnt go well, and i was a wreck, im not sure i can go back to it. and really not sure i can get anyting right

Dearest @Former-Member

Cant believe I havent seen this post...one of our sisterhood girls.

Thankfully you have been getting wonderful messages.

Is it ok if I join in?

Are you alright on writing about yesterday?

Dear @Former-Member

Im back, just waiting to see if you will write.

We are here for you sweetheart. I read @Former-Member messages, they are kind,hey. Her and her pet....

She writes

" felt guilt and shame and confusion. Worried I wasn't good enough, capable enough, whole enough, that I was just faking that as best I could for them."

then talks about asking for help. @suess writes that sometimes you just really need a diagram...I felt like she was talking for me.

Ive been so overwhelmed Today...I went into the sewing shop and said...I just can't choose the right material...can you choose some with greeen and blue....

What are those three things that @Mazarita writes? Ille go back and look at them.

then @Appleblossom is ....calm.

Oh what about she writes...'Yes the undermining of the other parent can keep the conflict alive ."

She gets it so right.

..I was thinking that your partner feels like he can't even....'feed,' your children properly.

We are here for you sweetheart. Thinking about you and you are always in everyones heart.......

Im trying to think what to do about those silly nurses who .......ask and state all the wrong questions.

Hi @Former-Member Here listening, thinking of you. Hugs. You had a scary first day and are still going through court and other difficulties but it's still somehow sounding like you are in a better place overall than some months ago when we first met on the forum. I'll bet there will be quite a few of us around the forum as usual over this end of year time so you can at least have us here as your sounding board while you are without psychologist. Do you feel you got some good help from seeing the psychologist that might help in an ongoing way now? I worked temporarily for the family court and saw this issue of one or both partners saying bad things about each other to children come up many times. I admire that you don't say bad things about your ex to your children.