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Niquas Notes

Niquas Notes

I thought I might try some 'journalling' . Just write a little blurb out each day, basically what I'm already doing . . . just giving it a name . . a title, I suppose? But to give it some 'umph' in my head I'm going to try & remember how to start a new thread & call it 'Niquas Notes' 🙂
It's not even 11.30am & I'm having a tomatoe & onion sandwich for lunch 🙂 I think I've been forgetting to 'get around' to a few meals lately. It's pretty good 🙂
I think I need to go into town today & check the post office, I may have a parcel to collect (evil ebay again!). I might get some meat while I'm in there (probably sausages ;)), I don't think I've had a lot of it lately - though I had Tuna in some fried rice the other night 🙂 Pretty sure I've got a couple of DVDs to collect from the library too 😉 {which means waiting until after 2pm at least as they close from 1-2pm for lunch} Today being Wednesday, it's an off-lead walk day, so I'll take the puppies along & drop into the local Forest on the way back home 🙂 I really enjoy that walk myself, it might be one I've done a million times, but that's sort of part of what I think I really enjoy about it?;)? & of the camp trips, beach walks & places that I have been going to for a little while now - the local 'home' forest walk still gives us the most freedom & me the most confidence 🙂
I think I am recovering from the xmas kerfuffle. I've just polished off a banana, which I would normally have at breakfast, so I've just combined morning & midday meals 😉 & I've got a bottle of water with just a touch of Apple Cider vinegar in it :x I actually quiet like the tang & I do beleive my insides appreciate it 🙂 I've been having quite a few nasty waves of nausea washing over me for a while now.
I need to start 'beating myself up a bit' about the housework! I did get some dishes done before I went away, but there's still a mountain of pots and pans there!! & my mountains of dirty washing are growing death defying peaks!!! I did also get 1/2 the yard mowed, but the other half is overgrown & the 1st 1/2 could do with a trim (00)! & the general clutter continues to compact.
I must look online at what the costs of registering my puppies will be in my council, maybe I can do that while I'm in town? If I got the genny going & started tackling the dirty washing, I could mow my little fella's feet inbetween cycles . . . & then we could go to a favourite 'look-out' spot for a walk 😛 . . . that'd be nice 🙂
Well, by the time I get online, it'll be past Potatoe hour. So I'd better stop blurbing & post 😉
Love to all that need or want it, everything positive gratefully accepted 🙂
❤️

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Morning @Former-Member 💛

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Good Afternoon @Former-Member

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Good morning everyone

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Good morning, Niqua. How are you today? How did the session go yesterday? Thinking of you. @Former-Member

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I think a nasty ex is reading my posts. I've said too much already. I may have to close my account. My estranged sister received an unpleasant message from him. My daughter sent it to me in a text last night.

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Niqua, so glad your daughter has contacted you, even if it's about an unwanted message. Was there any other news from her? Is it possible it's just coincidence that your nasty ex sent that message? Was it specifically related to what you have written here? The other thought is maybe you could change your username instead of disappearing altogether. Wondering how your session went yesterday, if you made it. @Former-Member

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The message from my daughter wasn't entirely negitive & that she cares enough to warn me has given me hope.

Believe it or not muscular contraction, you have helped me.

His message was specific.

I went to the session & will continue to do so. I will seek professional advice about what to do concerning this mans harrassment, now over 10 years. I have had a DVO out against him, I have reported him to ACORN in the past & I will not hesitate to take legal action against him again.

I'll go now Mazy, I know your struggling so I'm sending gentle hugs & loving encouragement

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Niqua, please don't feel you need to go because of what I'm feeling. That's just glad to hear from you. I am missing our longer and more regular discussions more than you know. But I understand if you need to go. Please don't just disappear from the forum though. I would miss you a lot. At the same time, I understand if that's what you need to do. But I will be sad if you are gone. Again, thinking you could change your username.

Glad that the session seemed helpful enough to warrant returning. I'm so sorry this has happened with your ex. But so good to hear your daughter has sent you this message.

Love you @Former-Member

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@Former-Member ❤

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💜💐 @Former-Member ......
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