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Daily goals, motivation and check in

Daily goals, motivation and check in

I'm starting this discussion as a place where we can set our goals daily, help motivate each other to do them and then check in with how we went. It's a place to celebrate when we achieve them or just sit with each other if we didnt and are feeling down about it. Hopefully with encouragement and support from each other we'll tick lots of boxes for our daily goals and feel good about it. Please join in. 😊

Note* Ive just started this thread again so it will be visible. Once I deleted my account it no longer shows up.

please join in again if and when needed.

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Hi @Appleblossom I have a jasmine on the back fence. It's reached the top. Which is about ten foot high. So now I'm wanting it to spread. I dare say it will overflow onto the fence of the people out the back. I hope they don't mind... But as for my side. I need to tressel is side ways...

The cat is fine. I moved the kittens on. Regrettably. Wish I'd kept one now... She comes home when hungry or thirsty. Or wants to spend the night inside. Gets a pat... And on her way she goes again... She uses the pots out back as a loo. Which annoys me. Because I'm trying to grow lemon balm in one. And get a lemon tree established In the other. Great pets though.

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Sounds like you are not doing too badly atm. @eudemonism I tried to grow a mandarin but the radiant heat off the bricks was just too strong. There is often something that gets in the way of garden plans so its good training for accepting what works and going with the flow.

You have a much higher fence than I. I had to add the trellis as the fence was only about 5 foot. A friend has lemons so maybe that will do. I used to have the most fabulous peaches to give away to all my students.

Take care Eude.

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How are you going with things @Teej @Former-Member @Kurra ?

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Hi @Faith-and-Hope - its been a crushing day at work wtih a few things, plus a long night with meetings, and more work still to do... im just utterly exhausted and unusually emotional kind of but in the turned inwards hurt myself worse than anyone else can kind of way because i know that everything that has hurt me today is just my own fault or me letting it, which i know is ridiculous. over reactionary and pathetic...
I read a little bit earlier than your kidults were getting organised today which is good... but hearing that things are... wearing for you too, sending hugs xx

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Thank you for the moral support @Former-Member .... 💜💐

I am sorry it has been such a difficult day for you though .....

What you are describing ... turning it in on yourself ... is what S2 does .... probably D1 and D3 as well ..... part of our picture over here. I hope you can take a moment for self-compassion and offer yourself a pick-me-up of some sort. A cup of tea is an easy-reach one.

Hugs ..... 😘💋

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Hiya @Former-Member, @Faith-and-Hope

im back. Sorry things are really tough just now @Former-Member.

You too @Faith-and-Hope. It sounds like lots going on in your world too.

Im finding it hard to be on the forum lately for a few reasons. One is a son who is very displeased if I’m on the forum which is making it hard to be on here. He flipped tonight cos I spent time on here. I really wanted to be part of tonight.......especially as the topic was one I tick boxes for.

Secondly im getting tired so much it doesn’t take much for me to fall over and not be able to think or write much. Thinking of you all heaps though. Just not been able to convert that to words much. 💜🤗

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It’s really good when we do hear from you @Teej ..... 💜💐

Reading back through that thread myself just now. Hope it’s helpful for you .....

Hugs to you too ..... 😘💋

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Hey @Former-Member. It isnt over reactionary or pathetic or any of that stuff you said. It’s really tough hard and painful stuff that you are trying sooooo hard to cope with. Go easy on lj, she sounds like she needs some love and care . She deserves it, she’s been doing it tough. Sending hugs 💜🤗

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Thanks @Faith-and-Hope, it was important for me to have a say tonight. I’ve had more stuff that bought me undone last week. Without any consultation I’ve had my meds changed so that I know have to pick them up regularly and I flipped out a bit. I have my psych appointment tomorrow to try to sort it out.

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I'm sorry to hear that your son isnt happy with you using the forums @Teej though im guessing he has fears and worries for you in some respects perhaps. Glad you joined in the TT tonight as you had great insights to offer. I hope that soon the tiredness eases up a little so you feel better physically as well as all the other stuff 🙂 hugs
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