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It sounds positive though wearing @PeppiPatty considering the circumstances. If the 2 boys can behave and stay of the illicit stuff, and you can all bond on the family couch watching a bit of tele as distraction. That is fantastic. Worth its weight in Gold. I have my fingers crossed. But boys being boys need to have respect for the calming and civilising presence and value of their wife and mother.

Yep its a lot of upheaval. Take care of you too. Bella. Stand up for what you believe when they get too bolshie.

@Shaz51

Sciatica is pretty bad ... makes it hard on you too.

@Former-Member

Dont talk about it unless you want to. Take time to integrate the big words .. what on earth do they all mean ... It has taken a lot of time for me to find little words to replace all the big ones in the files that have been relevant to my family.

I was told in warning tones .. about 10 years ago .. that the family court was shifting back to the rights of the father ... I dont know the legal system enough .. but dont let it destroy you ... what ever is in the report. Tuck it away and make a solid promise to yourself to find a way through the treacle.

We are here for you.

Thank you everyone, thanks for the suggestion of fruit @PeppiPatty i will try to be more organised in the future for food at school. i didnt make it in to work today, my lil boy isnt well - had a huge vomit just as we were about to leave. 😞

I've been emailng my psychologist about the report @Appleblossom and she says same a you, its lots of big words... nothing has chnaged since beforei got the report... that i am 'fixable' but it just doesnt feel like that. its so hard to have so many things written about you and judgements made on so much stuff... particularly my childhood stuff/trauma/troubles/family issues... and who i could be today or not... or could possibly become based on predictions of people with similar histories. still more reports tocome and im just not sure im strong enough.

@PeppiPatty you have been through so much with your family, both recently and in the long past... you do give me hope. I hope that you can rest up today and look after yourself. hugs

@Shaz51 i had sciatica with my first pregnancy... i remember seeing a gp who thought they were pretty good at some chiropractic manouveres.. and did help a lot. i've also heard acupucture helps. hope its easing up for you,

lj

Thanks @Former-Member xx

It is a bit @Appleblossom, and I think my hubby doesn`t really think I am that bad

Hello @PeppiPatty, I think I have Sciatica, have to see the doctor next week for the results

will be thinking of you @GingerWhinger, take care , and keep in touch xx

@Shaz51 Hope the doctors visit comes up with something to help the sciatica.

Sorry hubby isnt aware of how bad sciatica can be ... after all your patience with him ...

@GingerWhinger

Liked your dry sense of humour even in the most trying of circumstances .. hope you are better soon.

Hi @GingerWhinger

hope that your treatment works well! and you come out feeling better, look forward to seeing your around again.

Hi all

LJ

Thank you @Appleblossom, I am doing some of the suggestions from @Former-Member and @Kurra, hope I haven`t forgotten anyone who has sciatica

I think My hubby had relised now because he has been helping me a bit

@Shaz51 I only had sciatica at the end of my last pregnancy, my darling big boy was sitting on the nerve or something. Had to wait for him to emerge.

I had a panic attack on Thursday and a panic attack today. Which is far more frequent than usual. Today it was because of fear? of getting my licence back. I headed out of the house to Vicroads but kept going in circles between 2 different bus stops to get there so came back home, nearly got run over, was not well. I am not usually a wuss.. its been face the fear and do it anyway for a very long time, probably since I was 6. I dont know if it is change again or that I am afraid I have to be chauffeur at call. My son said he wouldnt push it.

I just want someone to look after me. My son was lovely and tried to console me, and ordered in Dominoes and found a new show for us to watch together so we ate and bonded on the couch ... he is doing great, but I am not sure what to do. I have lost my mojo. Tomorrow I see my GP so I am going to push for a referral to psychiatrist.