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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
I was just wonder if there is anybody else who is suffering with mental illness but worried about the partners mental health state to.
He hubby has hit rock bottom because of me
I dont know how to make thing better for the both of us.
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
Sorry to hear that @Bubbles3 , yes I can relate to what you are saying with how quickly thungs can change.
Also relate to the anxiety of first day of school, my darling and I were both increasingly anxious in the week leading up to first day of school especially as our oldest was starting at a new school on the opposite side of town to his brother. Our school run is 35 - 40km and hour round trip so a big part of our day. Thankfully for us it went quite smoothly and a routine was sorted by mid week.
S2s school had a meet the teacher and find your room day Friday before school resumed which was a huge help for us.
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
We have had a rough couple of days @Bubbles3 but things are looking a little more positive at the moment.
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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
Hi @Determined
My hubby has calmed down now and is talking to a bit better. Its such al relief. I dont think i could have handled another day of abuse. I did get a speeding fine so he is going on about that but he said that he will take the fine for me coz the car is in his name. So thats good.
So are hopefully settling down here at home. He is going to sleep in our be.d tonight as he has b.e.en sleeping on the couch the few nights. So that would be good too.
Hope thing are going well for you
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Good to hear things have improved for you @Bubbles3, sending you hugs and hope you can have a good sleep tonight my friend 
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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
Im sure my hubby hates me
As soon as he gets home he is at me for something or other.
I feel that he doesnt care for me anymore
He has so much hatred towards me
I feel so loost and lonely
I miss him so much
But his not here
I cant talk to him
I CANT EVEN TALK TO HIM
Thats hurts so much
Im scared of what he might say.
I feel so depressed.
Really depressed
@Determined@Cracked73@Former-Member@Shaz51
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DeterminedSenior Contributor
Sorry @Bubbles3 I had to head out and get one of iur boys from a friends and have only seen your message now.
I really hope that this improves for you.
I know there has been times that my darling has felt that way about me even though i have only ever wanted what was best for her. 😞 there have been many times that I just didnt know what to say or howmto say it without upsetting her...
I really hope that you can both work through this together.
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Bubbles3Senior Contributor
I feel like i need a break from him ,. I need to gk somewhere for a while @Determined
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