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Falling apart

Falling apart

I have just discovered this forum and am hoping that i can find some people who have simillar experiences as myself.

4 weeks ago my then partner decided to end our relationship, he suffers PTSD which has turned into somewhat chronic depression.

He asked that i remain his friend as he feels as though if i didnt he would have no body.

I am upholding his request and trying to support him the best that i can. He has not done anything to hurt me in anyway and he believes that ending the relationship is better for me then me continuing to live alongside him and his depression. He feels he is not worthy of somebody doing that.

He has expressed alot more since we have seperated about his feelings towards different things that have happened throughout his life and i guess as such contributed to how he feels today.

Taking out the relationship and looking at this as even just a friend, sometimes it is very difficult. I dont know what to say or do to some of the feelings he tells me.

I am new to this forum its my first post. I am unsure how much information to give, but i am hoping there is somebody out there who has some words of support or wisdom for me.

Thanks in advance

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The Truth used to be the one @Appleblossom 😀🙀 lol

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With all the fake news floating around everything is topsy turvy.

Come on now @TAB I could not waste a cent on a herald let alone the truth.

They had one shop called" the dodgy paper man" ooops AD

I like how the young artsy set

turn all art pretention on its behind

but willing to talk rembrandt with me

Gives me some hope for a world reeling to the right and mayhem and confusion.

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Well lucky you its been out of print for 30 years(?) and no not sure what high heeled 👠 women doing at dodgy newstands lol @Appleblossom

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Lol ... Nah did not have the heels on then

Nitey nite

Puss

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Hello @dands26 how are you going today my friend xxx

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Hi @Shaz51 sorry ive been a little quiet this week. Busy with work, mr and xmas prep.
They have medicated him..
We are 5 days into the meds..
Otherwise all is well.
How are you and mr shaz

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Hi @dands26 ..... 😊

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@dands26

Trust all goes well with mr and ongoing care and that you have a pleasant Christmas.

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I have been quiet this week too @dands26, @Determined, @Faith-and-Hope

trying to pack today for our long drive and i fell asleep and i just woke up ,

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@dands26 how are things traveling for you at the moment? Trust Christmas went well and everything is ok for you.

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