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Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please

Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away: No responses please

Got something that's bugging you?

Want to vent, but don't want a response?

Sometimes our minds can get stuck in circles trying to sort out an issue. This can keep you up at night, or make it hard to focus on other things. I find that putting things away, and not thinking about it temporarily can be helpful.

This is the place to get it out, and then give yourself permission to let it go.

Maybe you will need to get back to it some other time, but this is space where you can put it in a place so that you can leave it for some time and (try) not to worry about it in the mean time.

It's a thread where people don't need to reply, it purely just to get it out your worry and concerns.

If you want to show your support for someone, hit the 'like' button. In this thread, 'like' doesn't mean that you 'like' someone's issue, but you support them in letting it out.

So write down your concerns, put it in a vault, shut the door, and allow yourself to walk away from it.

Pls note: If you are reading other people's posts, please respect that they don't want a response. Show your support by 'Liking' their post.

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I've just been left in a position that left me feeling super insulted.


I don't even want to talk about the injustice that has just come upon me. Bye the orcastratuon of the elders around me. Because I quite simply can't get my head around it. Or comprehend why it happened in the first place. And I'm left arguing my case to God. And feeling like I had to bite my tongue. And be made look like the bad guy. For the sake of the incompetence of the elders. Of my community. Once again. And it leaves me feeling like I have unfinished business with them. Because of their incompetence. Which effected me.

At 3.55pm today. If their is two loaves of whole meal sliced bread. (or other types of bread) Sitting on the bench of the community house. Which gets donated. Copious amounts of bread and seconds. Too give to community members. I will be rife. Because after grabbing four sliced loaves. A cob of bread. And a pack of rolls. I was asked too give some back. So there was enough to go around. Which was given to another immediately. While there was still plenty!... - And told to come back tommorow for more. Which takes a twenty minute round trip. And probably about fifteen dollars of my resources to get there. All for ten dollars of bread... And sign in so they can show results. So they can keep getting more donations. - I took what I could use. And what I could freeze. So I didn't have too attend that place on a daily basis. Which I believe is not what they want.) Because the more sign ins they show as results. the more donations they get. (hence keeping the show running). - I am always considerate of others. And others to still come when I'm getting bread from charity. But the messed up thing is. There was more then enough to go around. There was still some out the back... I took what I'd use and could freeze. Considering what others would use... And that I didn't wanna make a timely and costly trip out there everyday... Two were taken from me. And given to another. When there was plenty to go around. And I was told to come back tommorow. Which costs me time. Money and effort... All so they can show numbers. To the people at the top. So donations keep flowing in. And things keep turning over... So my point being... On one day of this week. If there was two loaves of sliced bread. Left at the community house bye closing time. Which is donated to be given too people like me.(i know for a fact there's usually plenty left over which gets given to the chook) . Is that not an injustice which Insulted me? And my dignity and Integrity? On the basis of the incompetence of the elders of my community? And say a whole lot more people did come through the doors… after me... and signed in and there wasn't enough? (Like 3.55pm will most likely prove wrong). Which is the results they show. Through sign ins. To continue getting donations. Would not things be adjusted according to the needs of people? When truth be known. They wanted to lure me back. To sign me in again to show more results. For more donations... While In between time. I've been told to put some back! On the basis of knowing there will be plenty left over ( on this day. (I assume (?) That this Incident has happened. That will be fed to the chooks. What a crock of....

I feel like going out there at 3.55pm and seeing how much is left. After I've been told to put some back. So there's enough to go around. Which the amount of is assessed bye sign ins. And feed the back. Super annoyed and frustrated.

I hope it makes sense?

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Re: Worry Room - Get it out, and walk away

I don't think I want to go now. Getting more and more anxious as time goes by.

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Understandable @Snowie.
Can you treat yourself with some nice hand/foot cream? I guess the time is going too slow ... hang in there 🙆‍♀️

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I had a car accident 1 hour ago in heavy traffic, on my long commute home from work.

My only accident in about 7 years.

I'm rather shaken, with considerable damage to my car.

I can't get to work without the car, & it will soon be out of action for a whole week, when being repaired.

I managed to drive myself home (after that), okay.

I'm in shock, it hasn't all sunk in yet.

Adge

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Hope it’s ok if I respond @Adge.
So sorry to hear that, understandable that you would be shaken up😣
Have you been checked for injuries?
Maybe a warm bath and definitely a rest to allow yourself you recover from the shock, physical and emotional. 🌸🌿

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hating this life. wake up to nothing, good to bed to nothing. try to change it and the response i get? 'well you shouldnt have went anyway'

pretty boring life when you havent got any idea on what to do with anything 'oh what movie am i going to watch today?' . feeling like life is a waste right now. feel like im a waste

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Thanks so much @Catcakes I'm quite happy for your reply.

No injuries to me - major to the car.

I can't get to work without it. They wouldn't assess the damage this afternoon, not till next week.

I will have to hire a car to get to work, when it gets repaired.

Adge

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Such a nuisance isn’t it when we need our cars for work@Adge.
Still , you have a plan so that’s good and I hope you can rest and recover.

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@Adge I suffer with Narcolepsy. It sux..sorry to hear you too suffer with a sleep disorder

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Thanks @Awpgirl

Yes Sleep Disorders are very hard to live with - causes major on-going fatigue (daily).

My brother has Narcolepsy.

I know you understand.

Adge

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