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Im not going to talk to her about it or persue anything. Not at all. Im not that sort of person @Queenie
How can i stop feeling like that. Im actually really happy shes married and her partner is really nice but the stupid feelings come up around her. I probably wont see her again anyway.

How can i stop those feelings? Maybe my mind is saying im ready for a relationship? Is that even possible?

I dont have her number or fb nor did ahe want any further chat than a hello so i wouldnt say anything else to her. But im so confused in what i feel because i know its wrong and ive told myself that. Not as in liking another woman but a married one and one i hardly know at all.
But how do i stop

I think i am ready @Queenie ive been pondering one. Just not sure really how to go about it i guess thatll fall into place eventually too will it?


Are the feelings really real? I don't know if I could be in a relationship with a woman. I mean obviously not this woman. Ohh im just confusing myself. I dont know what is real

Thanks @Queenie ill try. It was more are they real feelings. I dont really know. I mean ive never had that sort of feeling towards anyone

@outlander I am a woman who fell in lust with men but never committed and then fell head over heals in love with a woman at aged 20 - she was 25 ... 20 yrs we are still in love more than ever ... I identify as bisexual but even that is a label I don’t use much at all as I don’t see the need ... sexuality is definitely a spectrum and a function of each person you meet - we are all so beautifully unique ... re butterflies / strong feelings / blushing / electricity shooting around in the bod when you meet a new person - I’ve probably only experienced this with three or four people across 20 years ...apart from my partner that is ... I walked away from two of the women as it was at work and as I had not met them at all before I knew it was raw chemistry and not something to pursue in work or at all as I had a monogamous relationship ... I met a guy tho who I thought maybe I was in love with at the time and I nearly strayed - but discovered in th nick of time he was married and grooming me for an affair and nothing else - given he was my personal trainer at time I felt this was a gross exploitation of the trust in that relationship ... Esp as both our partners were sick at the time - so anyway I sacked him as my trainer and requested no further contact - ... then there was a guy at work I was physically attracted to and then we started going for lunches and he asked if we should go to a hotel room - eeek I was so naive didn’t see that one coming - I politely turned him down and then avoided him thereafter - more awkwardness at work ....... so my tips are do not act on this feeling at all if at work or one of you are unavailable - it just makes life unnecessarily complex ... however if both free then take it slow and make sure it’s not just chemistry with no friendship

Hi @Mandy1 thank you for sharing. I dont get these feeling very often. I knoe it wouldnt work out but i was confused because abit earlier on i was talking to Queenie im thinking a few months ago now that i didnt know what i was because i had feelings for women before but how would i know unless i tried it.
Still kinda like that but at least i know those feelings are real but i wouldnt persue it shes very happily commited and if law goes ahead they will be getting married.

Theres a guys i met today and hes cute but i dont have those same butterflies type feeling. I just think hes cute. I think hes only 18 though wouldnt that be weird dating someone younger then myself...

@outlander wishing you all the best with your relationship adventures - I’ve never dated younger so can’t say what that would be like - although I’m sure like everything else it’s highly individual ... trust your instincts 🙂

Thanks im sure things will fall into place. Only 21 still many yrs to come hey @Mandy1 and also welcome to the forums ❤