Calling LBGTI members

Oh @outlander, I'm sorry that Qlife weren't helpful. I've found them helpful for me in the past (that's why I recommended them). I guess time will tell and as you say, you got a whole lifetime to work it out. I didn't come out until relatively late as I spent much of my young adulthood exploring my sexuality and secretly questioning it. I wish there were hard and fast rules about what people are designated but I guess it is all about finding your true self.

In the meantime, feel free to post your feelings and thoughts on the matter here. I am sure many members (plus myself) will be here to support you, no matter who you choose to be. Remember sexuality is just a small facet of yourself, be true to you.

A label, I think, it just for stastical purposes @outlander. You can be fluid and go with the flow. There's nothing wrong with that.

I feel your confusion and frustration though

Hey @Queenie and @outlander

I was just passing through and noticed this discussion. Great to see an LGBTI space on the forums. I'm totally with you too that the only time we should label our sexuality is when it works for us. I like the genderbread person as an explainer around of the intersection between our gender, sexuality, and identity.

I'm not sure if this would be relevant to you @outlander however headspace have online peer support for the LGBTI community called Qheadspace and their next session is titled "From binaries to spectrums: discussing the fluidity of identity". It could be a good space to connect with other young people who are questioning their sexuality and identity. eheadspace have also done some great group chat sessions on sexuality in the past and you can access their last session here. Oh and if you're interested in eheadspace or Qheadspace past sessions, you can check them out here.

Hope there's something of use there for you 🌻