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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Evening sis @outlander

Hoping your day has been kind to you.

Lots of love and hugs 💜💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Good morning hun sis @outlander

Hoping you got some sleep last night and today is a little better for you.

Love and hugs 💕💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

I need to keep busy. Im both exhausted and not well but if i still and do nothing i start to be destructive so i dont know whats worse.

So far
Ive done
✅ washed all the clothes and hung it out
✅ Stripped and washed all the sheets quilt covers etc off the beds
✅ washed the outside windows and removed cobwebs/spider webs
✅Mowed the backyard
✅ Cleaned the spare room
✅Put in requests for some housing repairs
✅ booked a household clean up
✅Horses fed and watered

Have a lot to do before house inspection on monday
Should probably at least drink something before i pass out though

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hey sweetie @outlander

Sounds like you have got lots done already hun and are trying to keep busy.

Just letting oyu know that I am here with/for you sis. You are not alone 💜💜

Please take care of yourself, you matter to us.

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frogSenior Contributor

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Wow @outlander you've got through so much work! Hope you can get breather soon.

Hi @Snowie

Is anyone else getting no notifications at all? Mine have all vanished

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Hi @frog

Not getting any notifications either.

Hope you are having a good day 💜

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Emelia8Senior Contributor

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You're doing well @outlander ... ticking lots of boxes. But yes, please do stop for liquid refreshments!

Yes @frog @Snowie ... no email or site notifications for several hours now. Feeling very lost and isolated with that.

Emelia 💞

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

Feel lost too @Emelia8

Hope your day is going ok hun 💜

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frogSenior Contributor

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Thanks for letting me know @Snowie @Emelia8

No notifications makes me feel disoriented - I hope it comes back soon

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outlanderSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

thanks @Snowie @Emelia8 @frog
my notifications are down too.. i wondered why it was so quiet here today.

✅Just finished making mine and pops bed. put some new sheets and quilt covers on to change it up abit.
✅ All the washing has been brought in off the line

Made a tea and will have abit of a sit down now i think before doing dinner, the front lawn later
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