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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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Respite is supposed to be for the carer @outlander

That is wrong to say burnout is not a reason for respite. Most times it’s the main reason. You are not being treated fairly.

Big hugs 🤗

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Eve7

It was hard for me to even reach out and ask. Dont know what else to do right now. Its not that i want to fully stop caring but i need a break from everything. I hate being at home or anywhere.

Guess will see what happens in 10 weeks but im not holding my breath. Not much has changed except that im to weak to handle life.

Who knows maybe i will just break and they will give him emergency respite. Asked several times for help but clearly not worthy of it because no one else sees how things really are or hes not bad enough. He has a checkup with a geriatrician tomorroe but it never goes well so im dreading it very much. I know others deserve and need it more then i do. I shouldn't really bother them , im to tired to fight all the time.

@Snowie @Emelia8

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Eve7Senior Contributor

Re: not coping

💜💙🤗🤗💙💜

@outlander

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SnowieSenior Contributor

Re: not coping

@outlander afternoon sis.

Just coming past to see how you are going?

Love ya 💜💜

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning hon @outlander

Hoping your day has some goodness in it sis 💜💜

Lots of love 💕

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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@outlander 🙏🤗💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Snowie @Anastasia

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how are you going @Anastasia

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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I'm ok sweetheart ❤️

@outlander thank you. Are you?

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Morning my sis @outlander

Hoping you have a good day today

Lots of love and hugs sweetie 💜💜

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