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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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how are you guys going? @Emelia8 @Snowie @frog and everyone following along too

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MazaritaSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander same here with even notifications on the red ball on the website (my email notifications are off). I just stumbled on your last post here as I was following links, thought I'd just leave a hi and hope your evening is okay.

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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My notifications are down too @outlander I thoughr I was blacklisted...oh well I am online now.

Hope your day is going ok.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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✅ front of house scrubbed with disinfectant, cobweb/spider webs removed
✅ ramps disinfected
✅ exterior front of house windows washed
✅carport cleaned

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Eve7Senior Contributor

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That's an enormous amount of work @outlander while I've done nothing except watch a silly isney movie and sleep.

About to have dinner and a hot lemon drink.

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Hi @Mazarita nice to see you 💕

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Eve7 its only cause i have a house inspection plus ive been rather destructive the past few days so im trying to keep busy

Pop offerred to do the front lawn so ive been letting him do it. He went inside to the bathroom so i got abit done while he was in there. It normally only takes me 40 min do mow and whippersnip my yard (i avoid it by hiring someone else nornally lol) but its taken pop over an hr so im glad i got the bit i did done while he was away. I try to let him do some things like the lawns once a month etc as it gives him something to do and makes him feel like hes accomplished something.
I will probably crash later so im trying to do what i can before then.
I havent really slept last night so started to make use of the early time when i got up around 530/6

I mainly just need to do a tidy up tomorrow and monday before inspection and fold and put away clothes so if i get that done itll be one less thing to do tomorrow

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MazaritaSenior Contributor

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Hi @outlander @Eve7 I found you here going to discussion threads I've recently posted in, since the notifications are down. Wow to what you got done today, @outlander! We had a real estate inspection here recently too, first one after almost 3 months of living here.

With your pop, I think it would be good exercise for him as well, with the lawn mowing. You are kind and thoughtful to do some of it while he was in the bathroom.

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MDTSenior Contributor

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Hey all
Was worried my notices were not working but it seems to be everyone. Sorry to chime in lol

But either way nice to see you all

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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✅ front lawn done
✅ dinner done


Thanks @Mazarita ours is just housing commission but i still like to have a clean house. Wasnt intending on doing so much but i was on a roll so thought may as well do it!

Yeah its good exercise for him as long as its not to hot and takes heaps of breaks cause he gets tired and out of breath easy too
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