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Something’s not right

not coping

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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yes! @Snowie

i use to love to go to late night dinners but im not able to anymore, have to eat early so everything has time to digest properly due to the medical stuff now.

theres a desert bar i really want to try out though so that might be a weekend that i dont have work so can be awake much later

do you still have your dog?

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that sounds nice @Appleblossom i would be to nervous to sing in front of other people though i very much am lacking talent in the vocal section lol i can appreciate a nice choir though!

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@outlander I like choirs for a few reasons...

they pften dont make a fuss about one special soloist, but encourage the group to listen to each other and be sensitive. We finally have 4 parts - SATB. Its small and they do easy pieces, but I dont have to travel across town. Local is a relief. I believe - hope - that people making harmony in music can help create harmony among people, and therefore genuine commmunity. Sometimes a naieve hope, sometimes true.

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that sounds nice @Appleblossom 

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@Appleblossom that goes both ways hon. You have been great company to, I don't know what I would have done without the support from my forum friends. I hope church choir goes well tomorrow.

@Emelia8 I hope the day has been kind to you

@outlander a desert bar sounds yummy! We have one of those ice cream shops where you pour your own ice cream and then can add all different things to it and you pay by weight.

Yes we still have our dog. She is 9 now. As always spoiled rotten. Still takes up most of the bed at night. It's not unusual to wake up during the night and she's almost pushed you out of the bed!!

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