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Something’s not right

not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 💙🌻

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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It's normal to feel like you are when you are dealing with so much @outlander. You are a person too who has needs and wants and they aren't being met in many ways so of course your headspace is going to be tested. When you are treated in a way that doesn't take any of your needs in to account I can understand that would chip away at your very soul. Please take it from me that you are super special with an absolute heart of gold and completely worthy of love respect and support both here and irl.

Please reach out for your offline supports if you are in any danger of sh.

I saw some paper handouts today from my boys last hospital stay and one was a crisis support plan. It gave some good ideas about strategies to use when in a crisis. There are no doubt similar on the internet that might be helpful?

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Hey gorgeous @Lee82

I've missed you too. I'm sorry you're struggling at the moment hun 👂🙏🤗💞

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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I'm sorry @outlander @Lee82 I need to attempt to sleep. Stressed about returning to work tomorrow but it will be way harder without enough sleep. Thank you for your company. Please take care of yourselves and each other. Love and hugs and strength always 🤗🙏💞😘😴

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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How have you been? How's work going?
@Anastasia

Yea I am not great right now. I'm not sure what to do anymore

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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Of course hun. Good luck returning back to work tomorrow. Hope to chat with you soon. Hugs and hugs. @Anastasia

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Thank you. I'm sorry. I hope to catch up with you soon. Love you @Lee82 🤗💞

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles right now hun. Myboy is right your feelings and emotions are very valid and you deserve for them to be heard and addressed.
Remember you are important and special. You are loved here and listened to.
sending you lots of hugs and holding your hand.

@outlander 💐❤️

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Anastasia @Lee82
I'm sorry having trouble staying awake has been a long busy day. Thanks for understanding and being here

I hope you both can get some sleep.
@Anastasiai hope work goes ok and your anxiety eases as thr day goes on

Goodnight to you both and to @Emelia8 and every one too

Sending my love
💙💕

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SnowieSenior Contributor

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Good morning lil sis @outlander

Hoping your day goes well for you sweetie

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