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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Ive been saving the links but ill look tomorrow when i can get onto the computer. Bit hard with an unregisterung brain to read it all ive saved it though so i dont loose it @Anastasia

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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Yes much easier on a computer and not at this hour. Sending you a trillion hugs @outlander

Your Pop is very blessed that you care for him, your Mother and siblings are lucky to have you too. I wish I could scoop you up and take care of you for a few days to give you a rest 😘

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Anastasia 💕🌷

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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I think I'll make a cup of sleepy Time tea to hopefully sleep as I go back to work tomorrow. Really not looking forward to it at all. Very stressed but have no choice, would you like one too @outlander ?

🍵🍵

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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Thanks @Anastasia my stomach and chest arent happy so i think ill give it a miss for now so it settles but i will sit here with you

Thanks to you and Emelia and all for being here even though i dont deserve it

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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You do deserve support @outlander

You are a beautiful, caring, supportive soul. It saddens me to hear you say that. May I ask why you don't feel worthy hun? I'm here for you 🤗

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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@outlander Sending you hugs my love

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AnastasiaSenior Contributor

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@Lee82 it's so good to see you sweetheart!!!

@outlander

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outlanderSenior Contributor

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I can think of alot of reasons @Anastasia
I really just feel like i should be ok. I should be able to handle life offline without restorting to old sh habits again. Im becoming a shame and guilt ridden spiral in my brain about now

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Lee82Senior Contributor

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@Anastasia Hey beautiful. How are you going? I have missed you.

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