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not coping

outlanderSenior Contributor04 Aug 2017, 8:11 pm AEST

not coping

im not coping

i cant handle all of these things

besides my mental health deteriorating so dramatically, and my physicall health floating up the creek

and now within the past few hours

my great grandmother now is in a nursing home and they dont know how long she has left and to make thigns worse i think i have to put my beleoved horse down.

we just had vets out and spend the last 4 hours trying to save my horse. its been 2 hours and went back to check on her and its not looking good.

not good at all 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞 😞

i dont know what to do or how to feel, im a complete mess 😞

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 7:36 pm AEDT

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its easier to give advice then to take our own @Snowie
yeah thats really tricky with your psych situation. i hope the new one might be ok. can you get into see her/him soon?

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 7:42 pm AEDT

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No I can't get into see them until March @outlander

Lots of doubts in my head about it.

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 7:45 pm AEDT

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thats hard @Snowie
do you want to talk about your concerns or doubts?

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SnowieSenior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 7:52 pm AEDT

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Thanks for the offer @outlander Have spoken to someone today already which has helped a bit.

I am just not sure how I am going to get through the next month. Will take a lot of work.

Will say goodnight hun, have to be up early in the morning for ECT.

I hope you are able to get some sleep tonight and tomorrow is a little better for you.

Will check in on you tomorrow sis 💜💜💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 7:56 pm AEDT

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im glad it helped abit @Snowie sending lots of love and sweet dreams
i hope ECT goes well tomorrow 💚💙💛

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Eve7Senior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 9:39 pm AEDT

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Sending you a hug @outlander and truly hoping for better days.

💜💙💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 9:40 pm AEDT

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@Eve7 :heart;
how are you?

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Eve7Senior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 10:04 pm AEDT

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I am ok tonight @outlander I just take one day at a time right now.

ECT was tough yesterday and I needed sedation afterwards but today was better with work and GP appointment.

I’m sorry you’re having such a tough time and I wish I could do something to help you.

Love you lots

💜💙💜

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outlanderSenior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 10:24 pm AEDT

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Im sorry ect was rough, im glad today was better. Hopefully the next ect session will go better too. Whens the next one? @Eve7

Its ok just going to take it as each day comes too. The kids go back to school tomorrow too so might be abit easier

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Eve7Senior Contributor28 Jan 2021, 10:33 pm AEDT

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ECT is every Wednesday with about 5 to go @outlander

I hope it is better for you when the kids return to school. They must be almost able to be at home alone.

Take care hun and have a good night.

💜💙💜

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